Barbara, thank you for writing these beautiful words to honor this man who none of us knew... Paulette ----- Original Message ----- From: "Barbara Galasso" <uwish@xxxxxxxxxx> To: "'Showgsd-l'" <Showgsd-l@xxxxxxxxxxxxx> Sent: Sunday, November 30, 2008 11:49 AM Subject: [ SHOWGSD-L ] I never even knew you Because this subject came across the list yesterday, I couldn't shake it from my thoughts. I sat down at my computer and my fingers began to type. I had a lump in my throat as I wrote it. What's important in life? What's really needed and what's discarded? So this was written for a man I never even knew but who touched me to my core. Barbara I NEVER EVEN KNEW YOU By Barbara J. Galasso You know I read about you in the newspaper today. I think it was on page 5. Then I read about you on Yahoo news as well. It was even on several e-mail lists that I belong to. I read how somebody lost their life today. “Man trampled to death by frenzied shoppers on Black Friday.” You’re a celebrity of sorts, I suppose. I think I read somewhere that you were only 34 years old. Someone’s son, someone’s husband, someone’s brother? Did you get up and kiss your wife goodbye, check in on your child who lay sleeping and pat your dog on the head before you went out the door that morning? I don’t know because I never even knew you. What made you get up that early to work in that store anyway? Was it the burden of a suffocating economic meltdown? There were bills to pay, mouths to feed and perhaps the kid needed a new coat to go to school. You know this just didn’t happen to you. It could be me. It could be my brother or my neighbor. It goes on anywhere, anyplace here or across this country. Its called man’s greed, man’s need for more, man’s need for “me first, me first.” Its called man’s desperate need to survive in a wounded world made ugly by his own doing. They knocked you down; they stepped on you and didn’t look back in their quest to buy something to put a smile on their face or family members. With their head held up high, their chest puffed out,” Look at the wide screen television I got for you”, they’ll brag. “Oh you shouldn’t have” they’ll hear. And they’ll reply, “It didn’t cost me too much, forgetting it cost that guard his life just so their kid could see the next “American Idol” final. But heck, like me, they never even knew you. Yup, I turn the page and read that another major store is having an early Christmas sale. Come early. Stay late. At these prices, they won’t last long. Step aside. Watch out. Let me at em’. Hey stop pushing. Stop shoving. Another guard will stand at the door where you did only a few days before while customers press their noses against the window pane. And when asked “What about that poor man who lost his life? Someone replies, “I waited all night for this sale.” What did it matter to them? After all, they never even knew you. ============================================================================ POST is Copyrighted 2008. All material remains the property of the original author and of GSD Communication, Inc. NO REPRODUCTIONS or FORWARDS of any kind are permitted without prior permission of the original author AND of the Showgsd-l Management. ALL RIGHTS RESERVED. ALL PERSONS ARE ON NOTICE THAT THE FORWARDING, REPRODUCTION OR USE IN ANY MANNER OF ANY MATERIAL WHICH APPEARS ON SHOWGSD-L WITHOUT THE EXPRESS PERMISSION OF ALL PARTIES TO THE POST AND THE LIST MANAGEMENT IS EXPRESSLY FORBIDDEN, AND IS A VIOLATION OF LAW. VIOLATORS OF THIS PROHIBITION WILL BE PROSECUTED. For assistance, please contact the List Management at admin@xxxxxxxxxxxx VISIT OUR WEBSITE - http://showgsd.org NATIONAL BLOG - http://gsdnational.blogspot.com/ ============================================================================