In a message dated 7/8/2010 1:05:12 P.M. Central Daylight Time, marhaven@xxxxxxxxxxxxxx writes: But be prepared...if you do ask us ....those of us who have been through the fires and trials......you may not get the answer you want to hear! Be willing to listen and learn ....or don't ask in the first place! Know your own goals. Great post Carolyn, and you have touched on an issue I am very strong about. Have had people contact John and I to look at their dogs and give an opinion. They don't always like what they hear, but we often do say " you will get the truth, so don't ask if you don't want to know". I can find good to say about any dog......good pigment, nice feet etc and for a new person you try to serve the good and the bad nicely but straight forward. But I do dislike the pretence of some breeders that will rave on about a pup to someone who has bought it, encourage people to show and literally throw money away, who of course get discouraged and bad mouth the whole scene. We can give our breed a better perspective if we are just straight with people.....and realistic. Molly Trillia German Shepherds since 1972 PH 409-287-3940 Member GSDCA, GSDCC, GSDC of Beaumont (recording secretary), Life Member CKC "Experience is a wonderful thing. It enables you to recognize a mistake when you make it again." ============================================================================ POST is Copyrighted 2010. All material remains the property of the original author and of GSD Communication, Inc. NO REPRODUCTIONS or FORWARDS of any kind are permitted without prior permission of the original author AND of the Showgsd-l Management. ALL RIGHTS RESERVED. ALL PERSONS ARE ON NOTICE THAT THE FORWARDING, REPRODUCTION OR USE IN ANY MANNER OF ANY MATERIAL WHICH APPEARS ON SHOWGSD-L WITHOUT THE EXPRESS PERMISSION OF ALL PARTIES TO THE POST AND THE LIST MANAGEMENT IS EXPRESSLY FORBIDDEN, AND IS A VIOLATION OF LAW. VIOLATORS OF THIS PROHIBITION WILL BE PROSECUTED. For assistance, please contact the List Management at admin@xxxxxxxxxxx VISIT OUR WEBSITE - http://showgsd.org NATIONAL BLOG - http://gsdnational.blogspot.com/ ============================================================================