Since some of you on this list are from Kansas City I thought I would share the below. More than likely some are familiar with this place. Peace Luis violence against people with disabilities continues to be a real, damaging and disempowering fact of life in our community. One of the biggest problems in fighting this issue is figuring out when people with intellectual, cognitive or TBI-type disabilities can actually consent to sex. Also, when I look at this story I am wondering why this is labeled a "sodomy" charge and not a "rape" charge. I am passing this story along to raise community awareness.let's get talking! Dropped sodomy charge spurs call for law change when brain-damaged victim involved The Kansas City Star Breaking News A nurse's aide accused of sexually assaulting a severely brain-damaged patient won't be prosecuted because the woman could have been capable of consent, Johnson County prosecutors say. Although a doctor said the woman in her 40s had the mental capacity of a 3-year-old, she could have met the requirements for consent under Kansas law, assistant prosecutor Michael McElhinney said at a court hearing Monday. The prosecutor's office dropped a sodomy charge that had been filed against Brent A. Wheeler, 38, of Lawrence. He formerly worked at a Gardner rehabilitation hospital where the incident allegedly took place. The case illustrates the difficulty of prosecuting cases in which the victim has a mental disability, and some people are calling for a law change that would outlaw sexual relations between caregivers and their patients. "I'm just kind of amazed - this is very disheartening," said Palle Riling! er, CEO of the Metropolitan Organization to Counter Sexual Assault. She said women with disabilities are up to five times more likely to suffer sexual assault than other women. The organization is splitting a three-year $750,000 federal grant with two other advocacy groups to better serve or treat Kansas City area women with disabilities. "The elderly and disabled are easy prey," but the issue of consent can be difficult, she said. "When is the line crossed?" Johnson County District Attorney Phill Kline said consent can be a tough issue in the law as it stands. "There's moral wrong and there are acts contrary to the law," Kline said, "and sometimes they're dif! ferent.& #8221; The Meadowbrook Rehabilitation Hospital reported the incident to police on Dec. 3, 2007, after employees witnessed what they thought was a sexual act, prosecutors said. "He (Wheeler) was terminated the same day," said Angela Hullinger, CEO/administrator of the hospital. Hullinger said the hospital would handle such a matter the same way again. She called the incident unfortunate and the outcome strange. At this week's hearing, McElhinney said a doctor at the hospital originally told prosecutors that the woman could not have knowingly consented. The doctor changed his mind after reading the definition of consent under Kansas law, McElhinney said. Kansas case law says one has capacity for consent when a person can understand the sexual nature of the act, can understand his or her right to refuse and has a rudimentary grasp of the possible results. In this case, Kline said, the sex act was consensual. "The only issue is, does she have the capacity, and the state's doctor says she does under the law - there's not much you can do with that," he said. Defense attorney John DeMarco said his client was not guilty and praised the dismissal. Prosecutions also can be difficult when victims are not competent to testify, said Rilinger, the metropolitan organization leader. She called for law changes in Kansas and Missouri. "There should be legal ramifications for caretakers who have sex with patients even if it is consensual," she said. "They can easily condition and manipulate them in ways that gain power." Sean O'Brien, a Kansas City law professor and defense lawyer, said the case could have been difficult partly because the woman's mental age was subjective and "even a 3-year-old can be quite sophisticated." Her mental state would have been key in a case that "is neither purely legal nor purely psychological - it's an intersection of two professions." Even if the state proved the woman could not consent, it would also have to prove that the defendant knew she couldn't consent. < pre style="background:white;"> He said it would greatly simplify matters to heed Rilinger's suggestion and define sex between a patient and a hospital worker as a crime. "Make the relationship trigger the criminality," he said. Kansas Sen. John Vratil, the outgoing chairman of the Senate Judiciary Committee, said the proposal "is perhaps something we should take a look at." About four years ago, he noted, Kansas made it a crime for teachers to have sex with their students. To reach Joe Lambe, call 816-234-7714 or send e-mail to com To subscribe or to leave the list, or to set other subscription options, go to www.freelists.org/list/real-eyes