[nasional_list] [ppiindia] Re: Breaking News: Love is really Blind says Scientists
- From: "Lina Dahlan" <linadahlan@xxxxxxxxx>
- To: ppiindia@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
- Date: Thu, 17 Feb 2005 07:01:08 -0000
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Islam is a kind of good theraphy to prevent us on that kind
blindness...waah...Islam lagi..Islam lagi...bosen...he..he...
Madam Carla and Mister Mario,
Kalau cinta itu buta, jadi menikah gak perlu cinta dong ya? Komitmen
doang kali yang diperluin kalo orang mau nikah. Cinta bisa dateng
belakangan seperti cinta bisa hilang setelah menikah.
Aku punya sepupu is very strict woman. Jadi gak heran kalau
menikahnya agak terlambat. 33tahun..terlambat gak? Prinsipnya: gak
mau pacaran, Kalau ada laki seneng ama gue dan gue juga oke dalam
sekali pertemuan, ya udah menikah aja di pertemuan kedua. Dan itu
bener-bener terjadi. Untungnya suaminya satu type juga dengan dia.
Begitu di pertemuan pertama dah sreg, langsung dia (calon suami)
istikharah minta petunjuk sama gusti Allah gitu. Ya udah married deh.
Pikirku itu masih mending karena masih diketemuin. Ada lagi yang gak
ketemu sama sekali. Langsung di hari pernikahan aja ketemunya. Aneh
gak? Jadi cuma percaya sama match maker. Yang laki setuju aja
menikah dengan calonnya hanya karena tau calonnya itu juga hafal
AlQur'an seperti dia juga. So..that's it, menikah karena Allah saja.
Gitu. Jadi, saktu hari pernikahan tiba calon pengantin prianya
nyengir sambil mikir,"yang mana sih calon bini gue...??"..he..he...
Soal gimana akhirnya, gak tau deh tuh. Toh Buanyak kali yang
pernikahan diawali dgn cinta yg menggebu-gebu akhirnya berantakan
juga. Gitu kan Mario ye?
Wassalam,
--- In ppiindia@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx, "Carla Annamarie"
<Carla.Annamarie@xxxx> wrote:
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> is there any kind of therapy or something to really prevent us on
that
> kinda blindness..?..
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> Mario
Gagho
> <gagho@xxxx> To:
ppiindia@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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cc:
> 02/15/2005 01:33 Subject:
[ppiindia] Breaking News: Love is really Blind
> AM says
Scientists
> Please respond
to
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ppiindia
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> hehe pake 'breaking news' segala. biar dibaca Listy,
> Carla, Elok, Lina,dll. biasa niru gaya CNN. :)
>
> Menurut para saintis di inggris ini, cinta itu emang
> buta. dan itu ada kaitannya dg jalan kerja otak kita
> yg jadi 'meleng' ketika jatuh cinta. dan itu penemuan
> saintifik, lho. saintis2 ini pake scanning segala.
>
> karena waktu in-love, otak jadi gonjang-ganjing alas
> mabuk laut, maka tak heran sebagian pasangan yg sudah
> kebelet dan kemudian menikah ada yg menyesal. kalau
> menyesalnya "kok tidak dari dulu ya nikahnya?" itu sih
> enak. ini menyesal beneran, krn. pasangannya tidak
> seperti yg dia bayangkan (wataknya). ini tentu saja
> baru diketahui setelah cara kerja otak sudah tidak
> mabuk laut lagi.
>
> yg minat hasil observasi saintifik ini, silahkan baca
> artikel di bawah, saya kutip dari sunday telegraph,
> london.
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> Scientists find love really is blind
> Our London Correspondent
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> London, Feb. 13: Scientists have found evidence that
> love really is blind. Scans of lovers¡Ç brains show
> that they lose their critical faculties when smitten,
> making them less able to spot flaws or potential
> problems.
>
> The blackout could be the reason lovers are said to
> behave impulsively and why incompatible couples make
> whirlwind marriages they later regret. Prof. Semir
> Zeki of University College London has been studying
> lovers¡Ç brain scans and will present a paper on the
> research later this year. "The scanning shows that
> love activates specific regions in the reward system
> of the brain, while reducing activity in the systems
> involved in making negative judgments," he said.
>
> "Our research shows that the brain deactivates the
> networks used for critical social assessment and
> negative emotions while it bonds individuals through
> the reward circuitry. This explains the power of love
> to motivate and exhilarate."
>
> The scans showed that, in people involved in romantic
> relationships, the most activated parts of the brain
> were those which respond to oxytocin and vasopressin,
> hormones involved in the forming and maintaining of
> relationships. Just which neurochemical suppresses
> areas of the brain responsible for critical judgments
> is not clear, although dopamine is a suspect.
>
> The scientists, however, do believe the suppression of
> critical judgment may have a useful purpose as it
> helps relationships to get started.
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> =====
> Mario Gagho
> Political Science,
> Agra University, India
> ---------
> A WINNER works harder than a loser and has more time.
> A LOSER is always "too busy" to do what is necessary.
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