Hi, Or...perhaps this is it? (perhaps not...but it seemed to fit.) "For what do we live, but to make sport for our neighbours, and laugh at them in our turn?" Jane Austen, "Pride and Prejudice" (though perhaps we sometimes gossip trying to find out 'the good', too, surely?and to rejoice with those who rejoice and to weep with those who weep? OR...as sometimes is my case...to see what we can do to help...if there appears to be a need...) Best, Marlena worrying about many