In a message dated 5/31/2010 4:26:53 P.M., molleo1@xxxxxxxxxxx writes: so they can't be relied upon to "cover my back." That is, each one's life depends on the others. My fear is the other way. That openly gay people will be the ones whose backs are not covered. Good. And good to learn from Judy Evans that it's elsewise in England, since this should be a cosmopolitan discussion, not about some boring American policy! --- But hey. DADT -- is that Gricean. "Don't ask, don't tell". As my grandmother prefers: "Ask no question and you'll be told no lies". But -- is she lesbian? (Should we care?) JLS, Bordighera, etc. ------------------------------------------------------------------ To change your Lit-Ideas settings (subscribe/unsub, vacation on/off, digest on/off), visit www.andreas.com/faq-lit-ideas.html