Hi Jim, oh thank you. Yeah, that's true and they do say what doesn't kill us makes us stronger don't they? It's the bullies who are the losers. We are the winners and survivors. Even after all I have been through I'm still surviving and more to the point have survived it so that says I'm the winner. Those bullies are the ones with the problems not us. They have big problems that's why they behave the way they do. They are full of malice, anger and hatred. We don't need people like that in our lives no way. They are not friends of any kind. I must tell you that one of these malicious bullies said they will be glad when my parents die and I'm all alone among other malicious things and even about my auntie Pearl who I'm also really close to. How awful. As you can imagine that took a lot out of me emotionally. It's bad enough having a go at me never mind my family that's something that's harder to deal with. This malicious person is totally blind which makes the situation even worse. As I say I'm glad that person and the others are now out of my life never to be let into my life ever again. Love Clare