Hi Kathy, I need to clarify a few things. My husband has been driving pairs for several years (BIG ones). I have been driving pairs for about 3 years. It would be Russ with the bigger pair. I stick to the smaller ones. It looks nicer and I don't feel overwhelmed. We have lots of experience hitching up pairs and handling the lines. I've been to many fairs, parties, drives and parades with my pairs. The pair I'm considering will be no larger than those I've been playing with so far. Although I haven't competed I have 25yrs of horse experience, 7 years of driving experience and 3 years driving pairs. Also, this project is at least two years in the making. By then we will know exactly how well Comet and Dude behave in public as singles. The other two boys will be driving well as singles before we ever consider hooking them as a pair. I'm sure we could get our hands on an experienced gelding if we need to. I could probably even recruit my mini for Dude and Gator if I need to. No one drives more solidly than he (taught him myself and everything!!). We have trained all our horses ourselves so far. I don't think I've ever sent a horse out for training in my life. Gelding the younger boys is not an option. Especially with Louie. Ya just don't geld that kind of quality. Unfortunately we can't afford a Cob gelding just to pair up. They are kinda pricey. I'm not sure why I understand that is it acceptable for mare owners to be inconsiderate and then blame the stallions. If you take a 15 year old boy to a nudist colony I bet he's gonna look. If you don't want my stallion to be making noise, is it really that hard to keep some distance?? If I owned a mare that was a kicker and I warned folks about it, I would hope they would be considerate enough to stay away from me if I were off alone minding my own business. Why should it be different with a stud?? I'm not that worried about breeding season. I can put off our breeding if that helps. Here the driving season ends in April. We don't start breeding until May or June. It's a myth that spring is breeding season. Actually it's LATE spring early summer that the hormones are flying. Also we do all A.I. Our boys don't really think that a mare equals breeding. They think a block of carpet covered wood and Russ with an AV equals breeding. I intend to refine our methods to the point where a mare is not even needed for teasing purposes. Nice urine soaked rag and maybe even ground collection. We shall see. The more I can seperate the mare from the breeding equation, the better our showing will go. So far temperamentally these boys are wonderful. They live in a barn together where they can touch noses and play over the doors. I keep them that way on purpose. They have to know how to live together. I NEVER pasture a stallion with another horse of any gender. I value them too much to risk a badly placed kick. The young Sec A colt is out with the Hackney Pony colt and a gelding for now. Hackney is FOR SALE by the way.. DIRT CHEAP.. (shameless plug). So far he is clueless about his stallionhood. We don't move them with chains over their noses, unless we have a day or two of rude behavior. We correct it and then go back to normal, but that happens with ANY horse. We treat them as we do every other horse on the property. I wouldn't put up with being shoved or bullied by anyhorse, stallion, mare or gelding. The saying goes "Treat a stallion like a stallion you will have a stallion. Treat a stallion like a horse you will have a horse". They really aren't snakes in the grass waiting to jump on you at any moment. They can be taught to behave well under all circumstances. We have had the boys out in public and so far mares are not the problem. Shoot we drive Comet around mares EVREY DAY here. We own a billion mares (ok.. not that many.. but a lot). Our biggest problem with Comet is certain types of noise. Comet hates loud persistant, echoeing noise. He was really hateful at the Stallion Showcase because he was stalled backing on the bleachers in an indoor arena. All the whooping and hollerin in an echo chamber made him quite uhhhh disagreeable. Then again, ME TOO!!! I hate sustained echoeing noise it's painful to me and actually makes me angry. As soon as I took him out of the stall and out of the building he was fine. He was even fine to "perform" in the indoor. He just didn't like being trapped with that annoying noise for twelve hours. Dude was a doll baby, he was kissing children all day long. There were stallions all over the place and my boys never once got combative. There were also mares because of all the performing drill teams and such. There are tons of studs out there showing and doing it quietly. I'm just wondering if they can be paired. If it has ever been done successfully. I'm one of the biggest skeptics BELIEVE me. I can see the pitfalls. If it seems that it can't be done safely or that it's NEVER been done, I'll be happy to scrap the plan. But boy would it be a cool way to campaign all our stallions at once LOL We do plan to start taking lessons again. I would love nothing more than to have Sterling out here regularly. Little hard for me to travel to him because I'm the sole caretaker of a 13 year old child, 4 dogs, a pot bellied pig AND, for the moment 29 horses, (number decreasing daily). Clinics are hard for us to get to because they are almost always on weekends and we work weekends. They also tend to be out of our price range. We will see. Just a crazy thought that Russ has been having for quite some time. I think it would look incredible. I just want everyone safe. I'm in no rush. The babies are just that, babies. They aren't ready to be started. I'm a VERY slow starter. Ask Comet. He turns 6 in a couple of months and this will be his first show season. Jodi in Morriston FL _________________________________________________________ To Unsubscribe, change to Digest or Vacation mode go to: http://www.drivingpairs.com/dpmem.html `````````````````````````````````````````````````````````