We are driving a young pair of Morgans that were at pasture until they were 2 and 3 and then Amish-broke to drive. They are now 3 and 4, and have had a month of training under saddle at a dressage barn. Now back at home, they get messed with on weekends and a little during the week. We want to show at pleasure shows and eventually CDEs. I would advice on how to lighten my hands. I feel like the pair is always nervous and I really have to take hold to get them to walk or stand. At the first sleigh rally we took them to I felt like I had a death grip on the lines. A couple times the older horse reared when I was asking them to stand. They never totally lost it, but I was definitely holding them back 90 percent of the 3 hours or so we were out. I want to be lighter, but I don't want a runaway. When I drive them single or ground drive them, it seems the same. They certainly aren't getting driven or worked enough, but how do I make the time I DO have to work them of the best quality? I KNOW I can't be hanging on their faces. Do I need to do more ground and single work? How do I get them calm and confident in me? How do I get off their faces? Thanks... Katie