Welcome Carol and Sue, to the list and to the world of pair driving. Like Stephanie says, try and find some help. Use this list. If you mention the city or town closest to you on this list, you just might find that your neighbor drives a pair. We're all over, just not always very visible. Books are great, but they don't compare with having a live person to learn from. Also, look for a driving club in your area. If you find another pair driver, or trainer, ask if you can come and take a lesson or two. Better yet, ask if you can take your harness, horses and possibly the carriage so he/she can help you with harnessing and driving. Good luck. Keep us posted on your progress and don't hesitate to ask questions. Have fun, but above all, be safe. Helen, co-moderator _________________________________________________________ To Unsubscribe, change to Digest or Vacation mode go to: http://www.drivingpairs.com/dpmem.html `````````````````````````````````````````````````````````