"although i have changed my name to chad while i lurk around the listserve without giving feedback." Actually, it is not that I lurk, it is more that I rarely have time to check the listserv. I set up a seperate account for listservs, but then I always forget to check it. When I do, I usually post. Nat: We are still trying to make babies, but no luck yet. Oh well, trying is fun! The discussion about IUP self vs. home self is interesting. I definately have "multiple" versions of me. I find that I am very different at UTC with college students then I am at McCallie with h.s. boys. IUP brings out a different side of me, probably because I am the student again. It's interesting to me how many varied roles I play in my life, but it is good to know that it is a common phenomenon. Chad (the real one)