[bactttoma] Re: I will not be able to write or monitor this list most of Friday
- From: steven taylor <steven_taylor10@xxxxxxxxxxx>
- To: bactttoma@xxxxxxxxxxxxx
- Date: Wed, 7 Apr 2010 14:39:37 +1000
Thank God amanda is here she's just walked in the door, we decided my house
was better for a talk.
I will write again soon.
On 07/04/2010, at 2:35 PM, steven taylor wrote:
> What is so amazing is this celebrant was so helpful and friendly.
>
> He really put himself in our shoes for everything we wanted, he even had
> places to suggest for buying memorial candles and they really do look nice, I
> wish I could describe them.
>
> They are white with a white flame when lit.
>
> Dad has been taking it pretty hard the last 2 ddays, I'm coping, god knows
> how but I'm ready to cry, it's really hitting me today.
>
>
> On 07/04/2010, at 2:22 PM, Franklin Brent wrote:
>
>> Hi Steve,
>>
>> I will be thinking of you on Friday,
>>
>> Brent/.
>>
>> -----Original Message-----
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>> Sent: Wednesday, 7 April 2010 2:15 PM
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>> Subject: [bactttoma] I will not be able to write or monitor this list
>> most of Friday
>>
>>
>> Hi folks.
>>
>> The funeral for my mother is happening on
>> Friday. No, I am not the celebrant for this one.
>>
>> One reason is I'm not sure that I am going to be able to stop crying,
>> another is legally I can't anyway for this funeral.
>>
>> I am turning every single device off on Friday, and won't be able to
>> write or monitor this list.
>>
>> It's in good shape, so I'm not expecting complete disaster.
>>
>> I am also turning off all telephones for the day as I am sorry to say, I
>> need a day for me, and again I am sorry if that sounds rude or selfish.
>>
>> Just to let you know what's happening.
>>
>> Ok the funeral is being held here at a church in Melton and is an
>> invitation only affair.
>>
>> This was the only way to do this, because the church is small so we had
>> to choose carefully who was going.
>>
>> The only fortunate thing out of all of that was nobody who isn't going
>> has complained to myself, my Dad or my Daughter, but of course, we don't
>> have super big ears to hear what they say outside our presence.
>>
>> The funeral takes place at 10.30 on Friday morning.
>>
>> There will be 3 speakers.
>>
>> My father, my daughter and myself.
>>
>> My mother is going to be cremated according to her wishes.
>>
>> As we go in to the church, we're playing a song called looking forward,
>> looking back by Slim Dusty.
>>
>> Once we're all seated the celebrant reads the welcome message.
>>
>> Amanda is then invited to light candles for my mother and my wife and
>> the service begins.
>>
>> Photographs of both are given to the assembled congregation.
>>
>> The celebrant gives a brief history.
>>
>> I have to say, we found this part hard, there was so much to say.
>>
>> Ok my father speaks first.
>>
>> After he has finished, the celebrant invites me to speak.
>>
>> I speak, then the celebrant plays amazing grace.
>>
>> Then Amanda speaks, and boy the tears are dripping already because it's
>> a beautiful speech she's written.
>>
>> We sit down again and a song called True Blue from John Williamson is
>> played.
>>
>> Whilst Mum was born in England, this was one of her favourites of songs.
>>
>> The celebrant then invites anyone else to speak, we're not expecting
>> anyone to do so.
>>
>> The celebrant then says the Lord's prayer over my mother and closes the
>> service.
>>
>> The family leaves first, waits out the front to thank guests.
>>
>> Whilst we leave a song is played called time to say goodbye by Andrey
>> Pachelli.
>>
>> We then go as a private family and witness the final cremation act.
>>
>> At this final act, the lord is my shepherd is played by me on a trumpet.
>>
>> Hope I don't cry and can't continue.
>>
>> After this is over, everyone is meeting at my place for the traditional
>> wake.
>>
>> Amanda formally welcomes everyone and food and drinks are served.
>>
>> No idea how long this will go on for.
>>
>> Everyone is bringing flowers and we have a huge collection of cards and
>> there is a book for all guests to sign.
>>
>> We are not keeping my mothers ashes, Dad doesn't like this idea, and we
>> agree with him.
>>
>> So I will be drinking alcohol at the wake, and I'm not exactly sure
>> what sort of fit state I'm going to be in to monitor the list.
>>
>> I will let the list know on Saturday after I recover from a hang over
>> how things went.
>>
>> Oh forgot to mention, we're giving all guests a dvd of the funeral
>> service.
>>
>> Well, thanks everyone for your thoughts and prayers and everything else.
>>
>> Cheers.
>>
>> Steven Taylor.
>>
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