Nature Friends, "I will treat him respectfully, but I can never forgive him," the mother of the dead 19 yr. old said of the drunk driver who caused the death of her son. "I can't either," added the dead boy's older sister at the last preparation session only one month ago. Yet, today when the victims sat sat face to face with the offender, each said, "I forgive you, Carl." Later I asked what had changed their minds. "When he was sitting there taking responsibility for what he had done, making no excuses and opening up his heart to us, I just had to do it--it was the only thing I could do," she said as her mother nodded. "My heart was completely cleansed of all my anger toward him," the mother added. "I will really sleep tonight for the first time since my son died three years ago." The offender agreed to the sister's request that he be her speaking partner at MADD victim impact panels (where DWI offenders are confronted with the seriousness of their behavior). They will plant a tree together at the grave of the dead boy in May. Thank you for your prayers. Ray * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * "The only people on earth who do not see Christ and his teachings as non-violent are Christians." --Mohandas K. Gandhi