I thought this from the Mennonite Early Childhood Network was just too good not to pass on. We spend so much time with Christmas prep, etc. and sometimes forget how hard that is for not only young children, but for us as well. Fill your spirit! Gloria NeunaberDirector EmeritaTrinity Child Development Center 5801 Westminster DriveAustin, TX 78723512-928-2212 Date: Wed, 18 Dec 2013 17:07:00 -0500 Subject: Extending Extravagant Love MECN E-Alert--BA From: kathrynasch31@xxxxxxxxx To: fmcdenver@xxxxxxx Prayer for Faith and Learning Scheduled for December 27, 2013 We are celebrating your overwhelming self-less love for us, your children, during this Christmas season. Fill our spirits so that we can extend your extravagant love to others, especially to little ones. May we draw them to you, the Source of Love. Submitted by Tami Keim ***** ***** ***** ***** ***** ***** ***** Dear Friends of Young Children, If we are to convey the joy of the Christmas season to young children, we must fill our spirits. We must guard against over-commitment by carefully selecting from many resources--daily devotions from various sources (printed, radio and television and other electronic programing), joyful contacts with friends and family far and near through various media, choosing from an array of community celebrations in schools and churches, in addition to family gatherings--all highlighting the reason for the season. In the end, children will form identities based on lots of things. Loving adults are the best source of the most powerful ones. Extend extravagant love A Quaker saying “Attitudes are caught, not taught” suggests that attitudes are contagious. What we do in front of children can make them want to "catch" it from us. When children sense that we love them, and they see us celebrate God's overwhelming self-less love, they catch a desire to love the Babe in Bethlehem, too.* Little Baby Jesus came on Christmas Day; Little Baby Jesus slept upon the hay';Little Baby Jesus was God's only Son" Jesus came because He loves us ev'ry one.Katherine Royer Christmas decorations are ways to share the love for Baby Jesus. Lighting the advent wreath, adding one new ornament for the tree each year which may have been selected from a Ten Thousand Villages outlet, moving figures from the manger scene closer to the creche each day adding the baby on Christmas Day are traditions in some families. Young children can absorb the love and anticipation of the joyful season. Christmas preparations can include young children. Baking Christmas cookies is one possibility. They taste best when they're shared and eaten with someone we love. Teachers, the custodian, bus driver, neighbors, the letter carrier/newspaper deliverer may be grateful recipients. Christmas giving can take many forms. Attempting to buy love by lavishing children with many gifts may be less satisfying than spending time with them reading, singing, praying and encouraging participation in Christmas music and dramatizations whereby they offer their love and happiness, giving themselves, their gift to all. Whenever they spontaneously share a hug with a family member, lonely person in a retirement center, teacher or friend, they are giving the greatest gift--their love. Christmas gatherings can be over-stimulating and exhausting for children--and adults.. To prepare for the anticipated gathering, children might identify each guest and draw a picture of themselves to give to the guests--a gift of themselves. Putting napkins on the table or other appropriate involvement for the celebration with those they love, can be calming. * In contexts where there are various religious groups represented, the focus can be on Jesus' message of peace, a concept they all would support. May your relationship with the Source of Love permeate your relationship with children and draw them to that Source, Kathryn Aschliman, Coordinator Mennonite Early Childhood Network: Birth through Kindergarten http://www.mennoniteeducation.org/MECN The mission of the Mennonite Early Childhood Network is to assist in developing the whole child spiritually, physically, emotionally, socially and cognitively with a framework that reflects an Anabaptist interpretation* of the Christian faith by providing information and resources for parents and early educators of all children, birth through kindergarten. Revised 4-19-13 *"Jesus is the center of our faith, Christ-centered community is the center of our life, and reconciliation is the center of our work." Palmer Becker 8-3-05 If your e-mail address changes, or the designated recipient is replaced, please inform Kathryn Aschliman: kathrynasch31@xxxxxxxxx To unsubscribe from MECN E-alerts, reply via e-mail with "remove" in the subject line.