who's this fraser person? he must make good coffee if Davi says :) Davi, seeing as how u have a new car n u know where Meggy lives, can i get a lift from u if u dont mind muchly... unless you're doin stuff elsewhere after coffee... Quoting davi@xxxxxxxxx: ~=~ oh oh. i know where Meg lives. im good! ~=~ mt eden village is a great place for coffee. can we go to frasers? ~=~ ~=~ Quoting Luka Mili=9Aa <lmil005@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx>: ~=~ ~=~ > excellent... sunday 10am it is... where's meg's place? ~=~ >=20 ~=~ >=20 ~=~ > Quoting Megayanti Sewu <msewu@xxxxxxxxxxx>: ~=~ >=20 ~=~ > ~=3D~ Ok.. let's do sunday then. 10, my place we could walk up.. should= ~=~ be ~=~ > nice ~=~ > ~=3D~ weather :/ hopefully? ~=~ > ~=3D~ ~=~ > ~=3D~ -----Original Message----- ~=~ > ~=3D~ From: davi@xxxxxxxxx ~=~ > ~=3D~ To: 340@xxxxxxxxxxxxx ~=~ > ~=3D~ Sent: 6/18/2004 3:22 PM ~=~ > ~=3D~ Subject: [340] Re: Fwd: The Mayonnaise Jar & Coffee ~=~ > ~=3D~ ~=~ > ~=3D~ can we do it sunday morning? coz gonna get my car tomorrow n wann= ~=~ a make ~=~ > ~=3D~ it all ~=~ > ~=3D~ nice :) ~=~ > ~=3D~ ~=~ > ~=3D~ Quoting Tony Yeung <Tony.Yeung@xxxxxxxxxxxx>: ~=~ > ~=3D~ ~=~ > ~=3D~ > i sleep most of the mornings in my weekends..! :D ~=~ > ~=3D~ > ~=~ > ~=3D~ > -----Original Message----- ~=~ > ~=3D~ > From: Megayanti Sewu [mailto:msewu@xxxxxxxxxxx] ~=~ > ~=3D~ > Sent: Friday, 18 June 2004 3:13 p.m. ~=~ > ~=3D~ > To: '340@xxxxxxxxxxxxx ' ~=~ > ~=3D~ > Subject: [340] Re: Fwd: The Mayonnaise Jar & Coffee ~=~ > ~=3D~ > ~=~ > ~=3D~ > ~=~ > ~=3D~ > Let's go to Mt Eden Village and have coffee there tomorrow morn= ~=~ ing ~=~ > ~=3D~ > ~=~ > ~=3D~ > -----Original Message----- ~=~ > ~=3D~ > From: davi@xxxxxxxxx ~=~ > ~=3D~ > To: 340@xxxxxxxxxxxxx ~=~ > ~=3D~ > Sent: 6/18/2004 2:57 PM ~=~ > ~=3D~ > Subject: [340] Re: Fwd: The Mayonnaise Jar & Coffee ~=~ > ~=3D~ > ~=~ > ~=3D~ > alrite then :) let's do coffee. when? ~=~ > ~=3D~ > ~=~ > ~=3D~ > Quoting Megayanti Sewu <msewu@xxxxxxxxxxx>: ~=~ > ~=3D~ > ~=~ > ~=3D~ > > Not just Luka of course.. coffee for everyone! :D=3D20 ~=~ > ~=3D~ > >=3D20 ~=~ > ~=3D~ > > -----Original Message----- ~=~ > ~=3D~ > > From: davi@xxxxxxxxx ~=~ > ~=3D~ > > To: 340@xxxxxxxxxxxxx ~=~ > ~=3D~ > > Sent: 6/18/2004 2:51 PM ~=~ > ~=3D~ > > Subject: [340] Re: Fwd: The Mayonnaise Jar & Coffee ~=~ > ~=3D~ > >=3D20 ~=~ > ~=3D~ > > only Luka? wat about other important ppl like me? hmm? ~=~ > ~=3D~ > >=3D20 ~=~ > ~=3D~ > > Quoting Megayanti Sewu <msewu@xxxxxxxxxxx>: ~=~ > ~=3D~ > >=3D20 ~=~ > ~=3D~ > > > awwww, come on Luka let's have coffee=3D20 ~=~ > ~=3D~ > > >=3D20 ~=~ > ~=3D~ > > > -----Original Message----- ~=~ > ~=3D~ > > > From: Thilak Nathen ~=~ > ~=3D~ > > > To: 340@xxxxxxxxxxxxx ~=~ > ~=3D~ > > > Sent: 6/18/2004 2:36 PM ~=~ > ~=3D~ > > > Subject: [340] Re: Fwd: The Mayonnaise Jar & Coffee ~=~ > ~=3D~ > > >=3D20 ~=~ > ~=3D~ > > > If you wanna have coffee with us nice ppl, just ask. No nee= ~=~ d to ~=~ > ~=3D~ > > disguise ~=~ > ~=3D~ > > > your thoughts into a philosophical story. ~=~ > ~=3D~ > > >=3D20 ~=~ > ~=3D~ > > > -----Original Message----- ~=~ > ~=3D~ > > > From: Luka Milisa <lmil005@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx>=3D20 ~=~ > ~=3D~ > > > Sent: Fri, 18 Jun 2004 13:30:10 +1200=3D20 ~=~ > ~=3D~ > > > To: 340 list <340@xxxxxxxxxxxxx> ~=~ > ~=3D~ > > > Subject: [340] Fwd: The Mayonnaise Jar & Coffee=3D20 ~=~ > ~=3D~ > > >=3D20 ~=~ > ~=3D~ > > >=3D20 ~=~ > ~=3D~ > > > Dear friends, When things in your life seem almost too muc= ~=~ h to ~=~ > ~=3D~ > > handle, ~=~ > ~=3D~ > > > when 24 ~=~ > ~=3D~ > > > hours in a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise ~=~ > ~=3D~ jar......and ~=~ > ~=3D~ > > the ~=~ > ~=3D~ > > > coffee..CheeroZ! ~=~ > ~=3D~ > > > =3D ~=~ > ~=3D~ > ~=~ > ~=3D~ =3D3D=3D3D=3D3D=3D3D=3D3D=3D3D=3D3D=3D3D=3D3D=3D3D=3D3D=3D3D=3D3D= ~=~ =3D3D=3D3D=3D3D=3D3D=3D3D=3D3D=3D3D=3D3D=3D3D=3D3D=3D3D ~=~ > ~=3D~ =3D3D=3D ~=~ > ~=3D~ > ~=~ > ~=3D~ =3D3D=3D3D=3D3D=3D3D=3D3D=3D3D=3D3D=3D3D=3D3D=3D3D=3D3D=3D3D=3D3D= ~=~ =3D3D=3D3D=3D3D=3D3D=3D3D=3D3D=3D3D=3D3D=3D3D=3D3D=3D3D ~=~ > ~=3D~ =3D3D=3D ~=~ > ~=3D~ > =3D3D=3D3D=3D3D=3D3D=3D3D ~=~ > ~=3D~ > > > A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some = ~=~ items ~=~ > ~=3D~ in ~=~ > ~=3D~ > > > front of ~=~ > ~=3D~ > > > him. When the class began, wordlessly he picked up a very l= ~=~ arge ~=~ > ~=3D~ and ~=~ > ~=3D~ > > > empty ~=~ > ~=3D~ > > > mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He= ~=~ then ~=~ > ~=3D~ > asked ~=~ > ~=3D~ > > > the ~=~ > ~=3D~ > > > students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.So th= ~=~ e ~=~ > ~=3D~ > professor ~=~ > ~=3D~ > > > then ~=~ > ~=3D~ > > > picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar. He= ~=~ shook ~=~ > ~=3D~ > the ~=~ > ~=3D~ > > > jar ~=~ > ~=3D~ > > > lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between the= ~=~ golf ~=~ > ~=3D~ > > balls. ~=~ > ~=3D~ > > > He then ~=~ > ~=3D~ > > > asked the students again if the jar was full. They agreed i= ~=~ t ~=~ > ~=3D~ was.The ~=~ > ~=3D~ > > > professor ~=~ > ~=3D~ > > > next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar.Of = ~=~ course, ~=~ > ~=3D~ > the ~=~ > ~=3D~ > > > sand ~=~ > ~=3D~ > > > filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar wa= ~=~ s full. ~=~ > ~=3D~ > The ~=~ > ~=3D~ > > > students ~=~ > ~=3D~ > > > responded with a unanimous "Yes."The professor then produce= ~=~ d two ~=~ > ~=3D~ > cups ~=~ > ~=3D~ > > of ~=~ > ~=3D~ > > > coffee ~=~ > ~=3D~ > > > from under the table and poured the entire contents into th= ~=~ e jar, ~=~ > ~=3D~ > > > effectively ~=~ > ~=3D~ > > > filling the empty space between the sand. The students laug= ~=~ hed." ~=~ > ~=3D~ > Now," ~=~ > ~=3D~ > > > said the ~=~ > ~=3D~ > > > professor, as the laughter subsided, " I want you to recogn= ~=~ ize ~=~ > ~=3D~ that ~=~ > ~=3D~ > > this ~=~ > ~=3D~ > > > jar ~=~ > ~=3D~ > > > represents your life. The golf balls are the important thin= ~=~ gs like ~=~ > ~=3D~ > > your ~=~ > ~=3D~ > > > family, ~=~ > ~=3D~ > > > your children, your health, your friends, your favourite pa= ~=~ ssions, ~=~ > ~=3D~ > > > things that ~=~ > ~=3D~ > > > if everything else was lost and only they remained, your li= ~=~ fe ~=~ > ~=3D~ would ~=~ > ~=3D~ > > > still be ~=~ > ~=3D~ > > > full.The pebbles are the other things that matter like your= ~=~ job, ~=~ > ~=3D~ > your ~=~ > ~=3D~ > > > house, ~=~ > ~=3D~ > > > and your car. The sand is everything else, like the small s= ~=~ tuff."" ~=~ > ~=3D~ > If ~=~ > ~=3D~ > > > you put ~=~ > ~=3D~ > > > the sand into the jar first," he continued, " there is no r= ~=~ oom for ~=~ > ~=3D~ > the ~=~ > ~=3D~ > > > pebbles ~=~ > ~=3D~ > > > or the golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all= ~=~ your ~=~ > ~=3D~ > time ~=~ > ~=3D~ > > > and ~=~ > ~=3D~ > > > energy on the small stuff, you will never have room for the= ~=~ things ~=~ > ~=3D~ > > that ~=~ > ~=3D~ > > > are ~=~ > ~=3D~ > > > important to you. Pay attention to the things that are crit= ~=~ ical to ~=~ > ~=3D~ > > your ~=~ > ~=3D~ > > > happiness. Play with your children. Take time to get medica= ~=~ l ~=~ > ~=3D~ > checkups. ~=~ > ~=3D~ > > > Take ~=~ > ~=3D~ > > > your partner out to dinner. There will always be time to cl= ~=~ ean the ~=~ > ~=3D~ > > house ~=~ > ~=3D~ > > > and ~=~ > ~=3D~ > > > fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first, the th= ~=~ ings ~=~ > ~=3D~ that ~=~ > ~=3D~ > > > really ~=~ > ~=3D~ > > > matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand."One of = ~=~ the ~=~ > ~=3D~ > > students ~=~ > ~=3D~ > > > raised ~=~ > ~=3D~ > > > her hand and inquired what the coffee represented. The prof= ~=~ essor ~=~ > ~=3D~ > > smiled. ~=~ > ~=3D~ > > > " I'm ~=~ > ~=3D~ > > > glad you asked. It just goes to show you that no matter how= ~=~ full ~=~ > ~=3D~ > your ~=~ > ~=3D~ > > > life may ~=~ > ~=3D~ > > > seem, there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee wi= ~=~ th a ~=~ > ~=3D~ > > friend". ~=~ > ~=3D~ > > > =3D ~=~ > ~=3D~ > ~=~ > ~=3D~ =3D3D=3D3D=3D3D=3D3D=3D3D=3D3D=3D3D=3D3D=3D3D=3D3D=3D3D=3D3D=3D3D= ~=~ =3D3D=3D3D=3D3D=3D3D=3D3D=3D3D=3D3D=3D3D=3D3D=3D3D=3D3D ~=~ > ~=3D~ =3D3D=3D ~=~ > ~=3D~ > ~=~ > ~=3D~ =3D3D=3D3D=3D3D=3D3D=3D3D=3D3D=3D3D=3D3D=3D3D=3D3D=3D3D=3D3D=3D3D= ~=~ =3D3D=3D3D=3D3D=3D3D=3D3D=3D3D=3D3D=3D3D=3D3D=3D3D=3D3D ~=~ > ~=3D~ =3D3D=3D ~=~ > ~=3D~ > =3D3D=3D3D=3D3D=3D3D=3D3D ~=~ > ~=3D~ > > >=3D20 ~=~ > ~=3D~ > > >=3D20 ~=~ > ~=3D~ > > >=3D20 ~=~ > ~=3D~ > > >=3D20 ~=~ > ~=3D~ > > >=3D20 ~=~ > ~=3D~ > > >=3D20 ~=~ > ~=3D~ > >=3D20 ~=~ > ~=3D~ > >=3D20 ~=~ > ~=3D~ > >=3D20 ~=~ > ~=3D~ > >=3D20 ~=~ > ~=3D~ > >=3D20 ~=~ > ~=3D~ > ~=~ > ~=3D~ > ~=~ > ~=3D~ > ~=~ > ~=3D~ > ~=~ > ~=3D~ > ~=~ > ~=3D~ > ~=~ > ~=3D~ > ~=~ > ~=3D~ ~=~ > ~=3D~ ~=~ > ~=3D~ ~=~ > ~=3D~ ~=~ > ~=3D~ ~=~ >=20 ~=~ >=20 ~=~ >=20 ~=~ >=20 ~=~ >=20 ~=~ ~=~ ~=~ ~=~ ~=~