[rollei_list] Re: A Regrettable Absence

  • From: Marc James Small <marcsmall@xxxxxxxxxxx>
  • To: rollei_list@xxxxxxxxxxxxx
  • Date: Tue, 31 Aug 2010 23:30:04 -0400

Don

I pray that your wife will be all right.

I was graduated from High School in '68 and from Washington & Lee University in '72, where I was a proud member of the Gamma Delta Iota melange. I then went on to earn a Master of Arts degree from Yale and a Juris Doctor degree from William and Mary.

I have never been to a High School reunion, though I am in touch with one person from each of my High Schools. I did attend my twentieth College reunion and horrified my then-wife when she realized that I knew all of the barkeepers. (I later calmed her down by telling her that I had worked my way through college and had held every odd job I could find, and these guys were sub bartenders, their day jobs being the maintenance staff which was why I knew them.) Since then, almost everyone I would want to see has died, so I have never gone to another and do not think I will do so in the future, though I stay plugged into the History Department. (There are a number of graduates who are following the failing health of a certain professor, so I check in from time to time, as he no longer answers his telephone by choice. He took my son and I out to dinner in 1998. When I introduced Ian to him, he casually asked, "who is your pick for the greatest US President?" Ian, then 16, immediately snapped back, "Calvin Coolidge, of course". The Professor just looked at me with approval and said, "Marc, you have raised him well." (Ian has stayed close to his roots: he now lives in Wasilla, Alaska and was ecstatic over Murkowski's concession, albeit Ian has little time for Sarah Palin, his former Mayor and Governor.) )

I have never given a dollar to any of my schools, although I did foolishly give a few books to W&L, who promptly discarded them. But I keep getting invited to alumni meetings despite my pleas that they take me off their begging list. I worked my way through three college degrees and anyone who wants a college degree may do the same. I think I did receive two scholarships along the way, but most of my way was paid by the US Army ROTC Scholarship Program and GI William and sweat labor.

So, Don, have fun this weekend -- but understand that your wife will be in my prayers, and, I hope the prayers of others on this List.

Be well, guys,

Marc


At 10:32 PM 8/31/2010, Don Williams wrote:
At 03:28 PM 8/31/2010, Marc wrote, in part:
I will be closing station at 0500 hours, Zone 5 summer time, tomorrow, and will not be online again until 10 SEP. To the astonishment of you digitally-enhanced folks, I do not own a lap-top or a Blackberry or an Iphone or Ipad or a Kindle or whatever; I do not afford such nonsense on my cell phone as texting. I might check in with my stepdaughter's computer but do not count on it. I am like a fine wine, and do not travel well, but this has to be done. And I might get to reconnect to my best friend from High School (last physical contact in 2000) and a former step-son (last physical contact in 2000, as well). Again, I do not travel well.

Interesting thing, I will be going to my 60th and final High School reunion the weekend of 10-11 September and will be seeing some folks I have not seen since 1950. Should be interesting but it will be confusing. The local folks from that class have a brunch every month not far from here and I recognize only 2-3 of them. I will be taking my smallest digital camera.

That same weekend the Oklahoma University Physics Department is celebrating it's first Centennial, but it extends from the 9th to the 12th. I will have to give preference to the high school events which coincide with the Physics events. Also, I expect I will know no one at the Physics Department because the guys who went to school with me are either no longer with us or have moved far away. Interestingly, I will be taking a HS friend to a Physics Department event, the play "Copenhagen".

Finally, there is a third event. My old fraternity is having a tail gate party on the 11th before the OU-Florida State football game. I won't be going to that event but there are tail gate parties planned for the future.

Strange thing but I just can't be at all the events at the same time. Heisnburg just didn't come up with a large enough number to accommodate the time and distances that would be required.

I just delivered my wife to a hospital this afternoon and she will be undergoing some surgery events during the next two days, and is thankful that she now has a valid excuse for missing all the goings on.

As for me, I am learning to find what is in the kitchen and how to deal with the dogs, who have to stay in one of the bedrooms when no one is here.

Regarding the group, I will try to generate some interesting discussions, as I have from time to time, making up for Marc's Regettable Absence.

I'm told that I'm losing my mind...
but I don't miss it.  :)

Don Williams

msmall@xxxxxxxxxxxx
Cha robh bàs fir gun ghràs fir!

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