My daughter is somewhat confusedly with what guidance my husband and I can give her finding her own path. Jim (hubby) is Jewish and we've attended a number of services, rituals, festivals, bar/bat mitzvahs, pesachs, simchas, with her along. She spent a few months studying written/spoken Hebrew with her. My Mother is a profoundly devout Pentecostal woman, to whom my daughter is very emotionally close. I have allowed Bronwyn to visit a number of different denominations with friends of hers. I want her to have a decent understanding of the varieties of beliefs of other people and cultures. We talk a lot about different paths and their validities. I had no clue they were going to show the movie, was appalled, relieved that she didn't end up watching it, and will be spending considerable time debriefing her over the next few days. The thing that astonished me most, however, is the notion of a "PG13" version of it out there. I'm still trying to figure out if that one is true and if so, what in the world it is like. Julie Krueger ========Original Message======== Subj: [lit-ideas] Re: kid camps & passion Date: 6/25/05 10:45:06 A.M. Central Daylight Time From: _writeforu2@xxxxxxxxxxxx (mailto:writeforu2@xxxxxxxxxxx) To: _lit-ideas@xxxxxxxxxxxxxx (mailto:lit-ideas@xxxxxxxxxxxxx) Sent on: Julie - I thought you were Jewish. Sending your Jewish daughter to a Christian bible camp sounds even more problematic to me than watching a passionately anti-semitic film about the passion of Christ. (And watching it without you by her side to add some perspective to what she sees.) This is not a bible camp with an interfaith component to it, is it? Unless I overlooked that. Your daughter's not getting a perspective on the bible that comes from comparing and contrasting the Jewish with the Christian versions. She's getting a "true believer's" perspective without any countervailing view to temper what she learns. If this were in school, I would hope it would be looking at the bible as literature. In a bible camp, I really don't think the teachers will be looking at the bible as literature. And you won't be there. If they brought parents together with their kids in a learning environment, that would be different. She'll be there alone without the intellectual tools or maturity to raise challenging questions and dare to openly dissent against what all the other kids will blindingly accept as gospel. I would spend some time with your daughter now examining, analyzing, and discussing all the accepted wisdom she's ingested by herself. Stan Spiegel Portland, Maine ----- Original Messa ge ----- From: _JimKandJulieB@xxxxxxxx (mailto:JimKandJulieB@xxxxxxx) To: _lit-ideas@xxxxxxxxxxxxxx (mailto:lit-ideas@xxxxxxxxxxxxx) Sent: Saturday, June 25, 2005 8:52 AM Subject: [lit-ideas] kid camps & passion Okay. The atheists can skip the first part. The second part I would love a reaction to from anyone with any thoughts, insights, etc. My daughter (13, going into 8th grade in the fall), begged me to go to a Protestant church camp because some of her friends were going, it would add some fun to her summer, and she "needed a week to study God." I pictured an innocuous place where they would swim in whatever water was their, do "girl-talk" after lights out, and have some Bible study. It's in Excelsior Springs, just the side of Kansas (Marlena, I should have checked with you aforehand and you might have given me a head's up). In any event, I sprung the $100 for the week of fellowship and fun. To my horror, she called me on Tues. eve telling me they were showing The Passion of Christ for the group and was it ok with me for her to see it. I still don't know if parental permission was required or if she was just checking in because she has heard me talk about it. I took a deep breath, told her I thought she would find it incredibly disturbing, that I had not seen it because of the amount of non-stop gore and the Biblical inaccuracies, and that I thought she would not be happy with the experience. I also told her she had my permission to make her own choice about it. (The fastest way to make sure a teen does something is to forbid it -- if when she comes home today I tell her I want all her dirty clothes on the floor, leftover food wherever she was eating it last in her room, and that trash is to be thrown anywhere it's convenient, her room would be spotless in 30 minutes. Hmmm.....that's an idea.) The other day a Mom I know from another non-Xian group and I were talking and she said there was a "PG13" version of the movie "The Passion" out there. Now I ask you. How do you make 2 1/2 (or is it 3?) hours of unmitigated non-stop gore and torture, culminating in an excruciating death, softer, less offensive? They digitally removed the blood throughout? They removed any obscenities which were shouted in Aramaic? The guy doesn't really die at the end? Please -- if anyone knows anything about this, fill me in. I thought I had a pretty good imagination, but this is beyond me. Off to get kid food -- you know, massive pizzas, taco chips, string cheese, ice cream..... Julie Krueger It