Dear Dzung: Thank you for a most poignant article. It is particularly fitting that you, a former officer of the ARVN and re-ed camp "student" would choose to distribute it. We look at the enemy, and they are us. We are all VN, our heroes, our values are the same. We are all humans, and war is horror for winners and losers alike. In reading the story, I kept thinking of the black and white picture of a young teenage girl, in a broad-brimmed guerilla hat, playing the guitar on the Ho Chi Minh trail, by a camp fire. I saw this photograph at one of the photo exhibits in Washington DC last year. She was beautiful, innocent, full of promise. The caption says that a few days after the photo was taken, she stepped on a land mine, and there was no piece of her left that could not fit in the palm of one hand. The situation in VN is not different from that found in many other countries. Eritrea fought a war with Ethiopia that lasted several decades and involved many women fighters. Although women achieved a certain parity with men in war, when peace came, they had to come back to more traditional and subservient roles. Another similarity is the black soldiers returning to the US after WW2 to second class citizenship. In VN, at least officially, the revolution that these women fought for advocates the emancipation of women and equality of the sexes. I did not see any reference to Duong Thu Huong in the article. Also the ratio of women to men is in fact lower, not higher than normal. Overall, there are 52 girls born to 48 boys worldwide.