Good Evening June. I just want to say you do so well for sure with being so independent you are an inspiration to us all especially for someone like me who isn't as independent as you. If you can do it then I can for sure. OH it's good to know you have got Alan well trained too hahahahaha. Your own personal chef. Yes I do think it's how we are brought up that depends on how independent a person is. Being wrapped in cotton wool doesn't do anyone any favours that's for sure. Love Clare xxxx