Good morning Vanessa Well actually I get my carer to cut everything up now when out especially chicken breast goodness its hard to cut up also roast beef. yourkshire pudding too or big roast potatoes . now pudding is Ideal easy to eat. If there is pastry on appple pie trying to chop it up with spoon some times custard splashes out typical oh well like clare said don't worry infact I am not going to worry any more if people staring me out can feel people staring me out oh it feels very uncomfortable so in future not going to let it bother me after all.I pay for my meal in cafe and after all only human aren't we? so bugger them all hahahahahaha as long as I am enjoying it. Guess what! Just ordered the slow cook book for slow cookers it is only £3 and two pence from the R.N.I.B bye Dianna page two volums can do fish in it too in sauce the R.N.I.B telephone number is 0303 123 9999 take care Love Carol x.x.x.x. -----Original Message----- From: Vanessa - Email Address: qwerty1234567a@xxxxxxxxxxxxxx Sent On: 23/06/2011 03:42 Sent To: Carol O'Connor - Email Address: missbossyboots33@xxxxxxxxx Subject: In Reply To: [guide.chat] Problems Hi Carol. Scampi and chips is easiest and cleanest meal. I would avoid meals that cannot be eaten ladylike like spaghetti, think of the mess on your outfit too. Ask the waiter to ask the chef if he would cut your food into bite size pieces. If on a date, go for sharing food, seductively feeding each other strawberries and the like. -----Original Message----- From: Carol O'Connor - Email Address: missbossyboots33@xxxxxxxxx Sent On: 22/06/2011 21:27 Sent To: guide Chat List - Email Address: guide.chat@xxxxxxxxxxxxx Subject: [guide.chat] Problems Hi all while on subject of blindness I have prroblems . Well for instance if I am in cafe with carer or hotel have struggle eating my meal I feel daft trying to cut up meat is a total nightmare and roast potatoes My peas or vegetables go every where all over the table hahahahaha embarrassing really. I feel that my carer is staring me out and other people in cafe feel a right twit I would love to be able to be able to manage to eat with out struggling salad is hard to pick up with falk so i pick it up with my fingers much easier not bothered if anybody is watching me. Take care Love Carol x.x.x.x.