[gawlerites] Re: Debbie's condition
- From: "Rebecca Foreman" <r4man@xxxxxxxxxxxxxx>
- To: <gawlerites@xxxxxxxxxxxxx>
- Date: Fri, 28 Aug 2009 19:34:10 +1000
Hey Bruce,
I'm so sorry you have had to watch Deb suffer like this and even sorrier for
her to have endured the cancer and the treatment.I'm still not sure which is
worse! I will pray for Debs recovery and relief from pain. The Buddhists
where I once meditated claim that if you call upon the great bodhisattva by
mindfully repeating his/her name, you or your friend in need may be saved:
this is the chant: Great Compassionate Bodhisattva Guan Shi Yin: repeated
three times without distraction. I have used this once when my friends
estranged hubby was being an arse.I asked Guan Shi Yin to help him see the
error of his ways etc. and whether it worked or not I don't know but he did
put his bad behaviour on hold for a couple of months. It can't hurt anyway
- Deb could also call the name Guan Shi Yin.and call it often, this is the
most compassionate Bodhisattva.
I wont be able to come tomorrow as my hubby is away and I feel it would be
inappropriate for me to bring the kids. They are too young to understand.
Please pass on my very best wishes to Deb and my heart felt strength to you.
If it is Debs time, then she is going to a better place, another life and
her print here has been made.strongest no doubt in your heart. Stay
positive Bruce and my love is with you both.
With healing prayers
Bec
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From: gawlerites-bounce@xxxxxxxxxxxxx
[mailto:gawlerites-bounce@xxxxxxxxxxxxx] On Behalf Of bja
Sent: Friday, 28 August 2009 4:19 PM
To: gawlerites@xxxxxxxxxxxxx
Subject: [gawlerites] Debbie's condition
Hi Guys,
Sorry to be the bearer of bad news but my Debbie is in the worst of troubles
right now.
Over the last two months, Debbie's tumour markers have been going up, her
pain has significantly increased and her comprehension skills have reduced,
so she started another round of chemo 5 weeks ago using a chemical called
Caelyx.
Unfortunately this hasn't worked and eight days ago, we were called to the
Maroondah hospital (where she was about to undergo the second treatment)
because her new blood test showed kidney and liver problems. As a result,
Deb was admitted to the hospital and I moved in with her.
During our 9-day stay there, Deb had further CT scans and these showed a new
brain tumour and a significant increase in other tumours throughout her
body. There was also brain swelling, arterial blockage and chest issues. As
a result, we were advised that no further treatment was possible and I
should 'let her go' in peace. Her doctors expect her to pass away during the
next few days to a week.
As a result, I have brought her home to be with the family.
Some of the treatments she has undergone have returned a lot of her
faculties so she can still recognise people and understand 'some'
discussions'. As such, we have decided to have a 'homecoming' party for her
tomorrow, Saturday 29/8/09 at 1:30 pm at 9 Golding Court, Scoresby, Victoria
(for those who may want to attend and are able to).
We intend making it as happy as possible as we believe this will be the very
last chance for most people to say goodbye to the Deb they know and love
(and in keeping with the 'happy' theme, 'black' is banned). No presents, or
flowers, etc, just yourselves.
So, sorry to be the bearer of such bad news but I know Deb would want me to
tell you guys.
I still pray for a miracle but ...
Love and best wishes always.
Bruce (and on behalf of Debbie)
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