[blindcooks] Re: Kind of a Rant - Shopping

  • From: "Jon Rawlings" <twosocks76@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx>
  • To: <blindcooks@xxxxxxxxxxxxx>
  • Date: Mon, 12 Jan 2015 08:04:52 -0800

Robert:
     Trust me, most of us deel with these same frustrations all the time.  The 
fact that you're in a rural area only complicates things for you.  Were I in 
your place, I'd probably do most of my food shopping on line and get my pantry 
items and canned foods and things in bulk at places like Wal Mart or Sam's Club 
as much as possible.  It's a shame that Sam's Club is unwilling to help you 
shop.  You didn't mention any sighted friends that are able and willing to help 
even occasionally, so I assume there are none right now.
     When I was single, I
'm a little ashamed to admit I didn't worry very much about saving money on my 
food bill.  I lived on the same block as my grocery store, as well as a store 
kind of similar to Sam's Club called Smart and Final.  I generally just bought 
what I wanted when I wanted it with little regard for cost.  Then, along came 
Emily, and all that changed.  Not only does she go through the ads in the mail 
with me, but our store also has a website where we can log in, enter the code 
on the back of our store card, and load electronic coupons onto the card that 
are applied automatically at checkout.  Between all that and planning my menus 
in advance and trying to stretch what we do buy, our grocery store spending is 
really quite reasonable, especially given how well we eat.  I made barbecue 
chicken in the slow cooker last week that went on sandwich buns, then took the 
leftovers and made awesome barbecue chicken pizzas for dinner yesterday.  We 
were given a free turkey about a week and a half ago which I roasted last week. 
 It has already made three meals for us, and there's enough left in the freezer 
for five more.  But, I digress....
     In short, I'm afraid I don't have any suggestions or advice I can offer to 
make things easier for you.  I like Marilyn's suggestion to basically accept 
your limitations with regard to your food bill and try to cut expenses 
elsewhere that are easier to control and manage.  Emily and I are trying to do 
much the same thing as I also have my eye on buying a house as soon as 
possible.  Renting just sucks for so many reasons.  Anyway, sorry I can't be of 
more help.
   Jon

  ----- Original Message ----- 
  From: Rob Hudson 
  To: blindcooks@xxxxxxxxxxxxx 
  Sent: Saturday, January 10, 2015 6:38 AM
  Subject: [blindcooks] Kind of a Rant - Shopping


  What follows is more of a rant than anything else. It has been a rather 
frustrating little while, recently. Please bare with me.

  I have been looking at a lot of different ways to save money on grocery bills 
and over all budget cuts, due to the fact that I am thinking about trying to 
buy a house, or a mobile home. The lattter doesn't really belong on this list, 
so I'll stick to the former.

  One of the ways you can save money is by shopping at different stores. Some 
stores will have different sales on different items, on different days of the 
week. The only problem is, those kinds of sales are announced in print 
circulars that, last time I checked, did not scan very well on OCR programs. Or 
they are stupid graphics in the middle of web pages that we can't OCR either. 
Or there are big fliers tacked up in the store window that announce one 
specific item is on sale that day, and because you're blind, you miss out on 
the sale. How is that fair?

  Another problem with the multiple store approach is transportation. Something 
like a paratransit system requires that you schedule with them far in advance. 
This is even more of a problem for me since I live way out of town. My nearest 
big town is twenty-five miles away. So you miss out on the sales yet again.

  Then, once you do get to the store, you have to rely on sighted assistance, 
who have their own thing to do. So you end up feeling rushed, like you're 
intruding into their busy schedule. This means that you can't really comparison 
shop. For instance, maybe there is a block of cheese you want, but is it 
cheaper in the deli section that day, or in the dairy section? Is that bag of 
flour tortillas on your list cheaper in the dairy case or the ethnic aisle? 
Things like that.

  Or maybe the store with the best deals--such as that one store that requires 
you to bag your own groceries and that you pay a deposit for the shopping 
cart--doesn't even offer you sighted assistance. The low staff count means 
lower food prices, but is thoroughly aggravating for the blind shopper. So you 
once again miss out on some good food prices, and there goes your idea to 
budget.

  I ran into the latter problem at Sam's Club. The one I went to wouldn't offer 
shopping assistance, so I had to turn around and walk out again. What the heck 
did I pay the forty-five dollar fee for if you won't <insert unfamily friendly 
word here> help me?

  Then there's online grocery shopping. To be honest, this is the approach I 
most often end up using. This is great, because on top of making a customer 
service rep feel put-upon by taking time out of their busy, busy day to bother 
helping the blind dude out, I'm also so hard of hearing that conversation is an 
effort, especially in a loud, noisy store. Both the rep and I end up frustrated 
with my inability to follow along and it leads to a very unsatisfactory 
experience.

  Enter the wonderful world of online shopping. It's great. I can comparison 
shop to my heart's content, I don't have to get a headache trying to listen to 
people, and the eleven dollar delivery fee is much cheaper than a twenty-five 
mile taxi ride. Not that any cabs would come way out here, but that's beside 
the point.

  Except.

  There's always an except, isn't there?

  Except there is only one store in the area which does online shopping, and 
they are pretty expensive to compensate for that. So you are basically 
comparison shopping between something which is a little more or less expensive 
than the other thing. So the budget isn't really saved much at all, especially 
when you hear, for example, that the ground beef you bought online was two 
dollars less at the store you couldn't get to.

  And lastly, there's coupons. So far as I know, there is no way to use coupons 
online, and the coupon printing sites are java-based and not terribly 
accessible, so you can't really print them either. Or the coupons are just 
graphics that you click on. Or they are in the newspaper, which might be too 
big for your scanner. Or if you do manage to get it scanned,, as you are blind, 
you can't really tell if you are cutting out the correct bit of newsprint which 
contains the coupon. So there you go, missing out on even more deals.

  All in all, I'd have to say that trying to save money on grocery shopping 
hasn't really met with a great deal of success. If you guys have ideas to help 
alleviate some of these problems, I'm all ears.

  Thank you for listening to my little rant. I have seen lots of blogs about 
budget savings and things like that, but not one of them takes these kinds of 
things into consideration. Very frustrating, indeed.

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