Robert: Trust me, most of us deel with these same frustrations all the time. The fact that you're in a rural area only complicates things for you. Were I in your place, I'd probably do most of my food shopping on line and get my pantry items and canned foods and things in bulk at places like Wal Mart or Sam's Club as much as possible. It's a shame that Sam's Club is unwilling to help you shop. You didn't mention any sighted friends that are able and willing to help even occasionally, so I assume there are none right now. When I was single, I 'm a little ashamed to admit I didn't worry very much about saving money on my food bill. I lived on the same block as my grocery store, as well as a store kind of similar to Sam's Club called Smart and Final. I generally just bought what I wanted when I wanted it with little regard for cost. Then, along came Emily, and all that changed. Not only does she go through the ads in the mail with me, but our store also has a website where we can log in, enter the code on the back of our store card, and load electronic coupons onto the card that are applied automatically at checkout. Between all that and planning my menus in advance and trying to stretch what we do buy, our grocery store spending is really quite reasonable, especially given how well we eat. I made barbecue chicken in the slow cooker last week that went on sandwich buns, then took the leftovers and made awesome barbecue chicken pizzas for dinner yesterday. We were given a free turkey about a week and a half ago which I roasted last week. It has already made three meals for us, and there's enough left in the freezer for five more. But, I digress.... In short, I'm afraid I don't have any suggestions or advice I can offer to make things easier for you. I like Marilyn's suggestion to basically accept your limitations with regard to your food bill and try to cut expenses elsewhere that are easier to control and manage. Emily and I are trying to do much the same thing as I also have my eye on buying a house as soon as possible. Renting just sucks for so many reasons. Anyway, sorry I can't be of more help. Jon ----- Original Message ----- From: Rob Hudson To: blindcooks@xxxxxxxxxxxxx Sent: Saturday, January 10, 2015 6:38 AM Subject: [blindcooks] Kind of a Rant - Shopping What follows is more of a rant than anything else. It has been a rather frustrating little while, recently. Please bare with me. I have been looking at a lot of different ways to save money on grocery bills and over all budget cuts, due to the fact that I am thinking about trying to buy a house, or a mobile home. The lattter doesn't really belong on this list, so I'll stick to the former. One of the ways you can save money is by shopping at different stores. Some stores will have different sales on different items, on different days of the week. The only problem is, those kinds of sales are announced in print circulars that, last time I checked, did not scan very well on OCR programs. Or they are stupid graphics in the middle of web pages that we can't OCR either. Or there are big fliers tacked up in the store window that announce one specific item is on sale that day, and because you're blind, you miss out on the sale. How is that fair? Another problem with the multiple store approach is transportation. Something like a paratransit system requires that you schedule with them far in advance. This is even more of a problem for me since I live way out of town. My nearest big town is twenty-five miles away. So you miss out on the sales yet again. Then, once you do get to the store, you have to rely on sighted assistance, who have their own thing to do. So you end up feeling rushed, like you're intruding into their busy schedule. This means that you can't really comparison shop. For instance, maybe there is a block of cheese you want, but is it cheaper in the deli section that day, or in the dairy section? Is that bag of flour tortillas on your list cheaper in the dairy case or the ethnic aisle? Things like that. Or maybe the store with the best deals--such as that one store that requires you to bag your own groceries and that you pay a deposit for the shopping cart--doesn't even offer you sighted assistance. The low staff count means lower food prices, but is thoroughly aggravating for the blind shopper. So you once again miss out on some good food prices, and there goes your idea to budget. I ran into the latter problem at Sam's Club. The one I went to wouldn't offer shopping assistance, so I had to turn around and walk out again. What the heck did I pay the forty-five dollar fee for if you won't <insert unfamily friendly word here> help me? Then there's online grocery shopping. To be honest, this is the approach I most often end up using. This is great, because on top of making a customer service rep feel put-upon by taking time out of their busy, busy day to bother helping the blind dude out, I'm also so hard of hearing that conversation is an effort, especially in a loud, noisy store. Both the rep and I end up frustrated with my inability to follow along and it leads to a very unsatisfactory experience. Enter the wonderful world of online shopping. It's great. I can comparison shop to my heart's content, I don't have to get a headache trying to listen to people, and the eleven dollar delivery fee is much cheaper than a twenty-five mile taxi ride. Not that any cabs would come way out here, but that's beside the point. Except. There's always an except, isn't there? Except there is only one store in the area which does online shopping, and they are pretty expensive to compensate for that. So you are basically comparison shopping between something which is a little more or less expensive than the other thing. So the budget isn't really saved much at all, especially when you hear, for example, that the ground beef you bought online was two dollars less at the store you couldn't get to. And lastly, there's coupons. So far as I know, there is no way to use coupons online, and the coupon printing sites are java-based and not terribly accessible, so you can't really print them either. Or the coupons are just graphics that you click on. Or they are in the newspaper, which might be too big for your scanner. Or if you do manage to get it scanned,, as you are blind, you can't really tell if you are cutting out the correct bit of newsprint which contains the coupon. So there you go, missing out on even more deals. All in all, I'd have to say that trying to save money on grocery shopping hasn't really met with a great deal of success. If you guys have ideas to help alleviate some of these problems, I'm all ears. Thank you for listening to my little rant. I have seen lots of blogs about budget savings and things like that, but not one of them takes these kinds of things into consideration. Very frustrating, indeed.