Hi, Hopefully this is NOT the guy who contacted me. Below is our conversation--he may be a nice guy but he DEFINATELY does NOT need a GSD --puppy or adult. Notice especially his 2nd paragraph See below his email to me and then my answer to him: hi cheri thank you for writing back. i've been doing a lot of reading on GS's and researching breeders as well. today i met a breeder for the first time in Warwick NY on the way home from Boston and got a good education i think. anyway about me: i am a 34 yr old single male, i live in NYC (gramercy) in an apt approx 900sf, no personal outdoor space. i am financially stable - have worked one job since college (10+yrs). my office is around the block, i walk to work which is nice, however i do work a lot which concerns me. m-f 9-5 at least - many nights can be 6, 7, 8, 9 depending on how busy i am. i'm married to my work. i'd be walking a dog in the AM, home for lunch walk and then after work exercise. i am in architectural sales (wholesale natural stone). in my investigations today i think it made me realize that i think it is probably smartest for me to not get a puppy as much as i want to, it might be better to get an older GS. this would be for companionship, not show btw. i am very responsible. let me know what else you need to know from me - i believe you are outside of Syracuse? I went to school @ the U of R (rochester). i think i would want a male, my main concern is a gentle, friendly and wonderfully happy and healthy dog so the sex of the animal is not written in stone. sometimes you can just tell from seeing a dog how content and happy they are - this is what i am after. i don't want any problems w/ excessive barking or bad w/ other dogs or kids, etc... i am concerned getting an older dog with seperation anxiety. i live on the 4th floor of a 17 floor builing, there are families and kids and of course nyc is flooded with people and animals. i know any dog can bite if provoked but i need a star if you know what i mean. i am not getting the dog for status i just have always loved them and i know how smart they are. getting an older dog does concern me, i don't want any luggage or unknowns. i am a little fearful about my lifestyle and leaving the dog for 4-5 hrs at a time. so this will happen it is just a matter of when is the right time in my life. right now realistically might not be the right time but it very well could be since i don't want to wait my whole life for the "right time". another concern with an older dog is from what i've read, they bond w owner while being trained and that would not be me which worries me a bit. thank you for your time. sorry if this is rambly but there you have a little about me. mitch Hi, Thanks for writing back and telling me about yourself. However--a word to the wise. I REALLY think your lifestyle and work hours are NOT conducive to owning a German Shepherd. You said "i walk to work which is nice, however i do work a lot which concerns me. m-f 9-5 at least - many nights can be 6, 7, 8, 9 depending on how busy i am. i'm married to my work. " German Shepherds are big and athletic dogs and VERY INTELLIGENT dogs and do NOT do well being left alone for many hours every day. They NEED LOTS of EXERCISE and LOTS of interaction with their owners. They do NOT do well alone--they can get VERY BORED and get in LOTS of trouble--ie: tearing up the furniture, the carpets, and the whole house in general. If they have nothing to do--they WILL INVENT things to do--and what they INVENT will NOT be good. I firmly believe you should either NOT get dog right now--or at the very least get a small dog who is not so likely to be destructive. Actually, from what you have said about the hours you work, I REALLY do NOT think it would be wise for you to get a dog now. A cat can give you lots of affection and they do MUCH better alone than a dog would. Sorry--but that is my professional opinion. I have had dogs for my entire life. (I am 64 yrs old). I have had German Shepherds for 32 years. I do know what they are like and what they "want" out of life. What THEY want is to have a loving owner who will give them lots of affection and lOTS of "fun" things to do--including training. Please rethink what I have said and do the right thing. It will be to your benefit as well as to the animal who will be alone for much of its life. Cheri Hunt _CheradonShepherds_ (http://www.cheradonshepherds.com/) Home of Ch. Cheradon AchtungErynbrook Molokai, TC, OFA H&E, PA,TH,CA, Eyes Cert. and Certificate of Health Merit Excellent from the GSDCA (aka Ch. Mikey) In a message dated 10/25/2011 11:46:51 A.M. 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