Well, Linda, we're fighting for Bryan to get them. We can't have them
here for good, as this is a senior housing complex. We can have them
for overnights and such, and Bryan is really a good dad, so he should
do fine with our guidance. Judy is pretty good, too, except for
having blind spots about some things.I know she loves her children,
but she needs to make better choices. It's all just so very sad.
Karen
on 07:07 PM 7/13/2016, Linda Gehres said:
Oh, my Dear God, this has gone to the court level. Karen, I'm so so sorry. I pray you can get the outcome you want through the court system, and there's absolutely no doubt that you love RJ and PJ. Don't know if this will involve both children, but they'd be in a much more stable situation if they were with you. I'm glad Bryand and Judy can't go to the hospital to visit RJ now since there's such a battle over his welfare and they're fighting so horribly. They ought to be ashamed of themselves, especially Judy. Bryan had no idea the dog would do what he did. Continuing to pray with you. May you and Curt, the family and especially the two children involved know the love and peace of Jesus.
Linda G.
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Right now, Judy and Bryan are not allowed to go to the hospital, so I need to depend on others. Sorry about the PICU. Just wrote what I was thinking. Baby RJ is in a regular room now. Saw him this afternoon. Working on the court case, and praying that in a few weeks, we'll have the outcome we want. Kids belong with the people who love them, that's for sure. Was up and out really early this morning to go to court. My brain is fried and
I'm in pain so gonna go crash for awhile. Thank you so much for praying.
Karen
on 08:53 PM 7/12/2016, Linda Gehres said:
Do you have to depend on either Judy or Brian to take you to see RJ? I hope not, and now that he's out of pediatric ICU (finally figured out what the P stood for), hopefully that means you'll be able to see him more often if you can get reliable transportation. Goodness, how many times do we hear in rock 'n roll songs about one lover envisioning her mate as something he's not acting like at all because he hasn't either grown up or isn't loving enough or whatever? By the way, is the older brother PJ being affected by this that you know of? I mean, he must know there's a big problem between Mom and Dad involving little brother, but hopefully they're not in any way mistreating PJ because of all this.
Continuing to pray, Karen. Do keep me posted for sure.
Linda G.
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Thank you so much, Linda. We'll see if he still remembers me when I go next time. I hope to go tomorrow, but don't know. He's out of the PICU now, but I don't know which room yet. I think Judy just takes the easy road, and if blaming Bryan will get her what she wants, she does it. I wish they'd both just grow into the people I envision them to be. But like BB King says, you can't raise them over again.
Karen
on 04:08 PM 7/12/2016, Linda Gehres said:
Karen, there's a special bond between a baby and his or her grandma in so many
families, and I'm extremely glad that RJ recognized you and responded to your
quiet, compassionate singing and doing the things that Grandmas do
best--holding, kissing, etc. I certainly continue to pray for RJ's total
healing, for healing within the family and no involvement with Children's
Services, and basically healing between Brian and Judy. The fact that she would
accuse him of purposefully causing this terrible tragedy to happen makes me
wonder if she's not suffering from some knnd of mental illness herself. I pray
not, and I pray she'll get herself together and stop blaming Brian for
everything. I certainly hope they don't separate over this as RJ needs both
parents, not just a mother who is vindictive against his father whom she
probably doesn't want involved in RJ's life. That would be just too horrendous
a blow for such a young one, and for the brother, too. I just pray for healing,
healing, healing and peace, peace, peace. Only God's love and Grandma's love
can change this situation for the better. I also pray for the people caring for
RJ in ICU. Thanks so much for keeping us updated.
Linda G.
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