************************************************************** Net Happenings - From Educational CyberPlayGround ************************************************************** From: "Crystal Swank" <cswank@xxxxxxx> To: <ECENET-L@xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx> Sent: Wed, 19 Mar 2003 15:16:11 -0800 Subject: What to tell children? Colleagues, As events unfold, we are often asked questions by parents and EC teachers about how to talk with children. Cooperative Extension and the NCFR have compiled a list of web sites and resources that may be of help during this time. I'm pasting the list below. Crystal Swank Healthy Child Care Nevada University of Nevada, Reno The National Council on Family Relations Contact: Michael L. Benjamin Executive Director, 763/781-9331 x 21 NEWS RELEASE ?What can I tell my children about war?? For immediate release: March 19, 2003 As the United States is preparing for war in Iraq and continues to deal domestically with issues related to terrorism, NCFR has been asked by parents and media personnel as to how parents can deal with these issues with their children. Essentially, ?What can I tell my children?? As a service to parents who may come to our Website for answers, NCFR has compiled a list of online materials/information that might be helpful to parents, professionals in the field, media, and the general public. We have listed such information with Website linkages. Web Resources from University Extension Services, other universities, military services and other national agencies Purdue University Extension offers advice for helping children cope with terrorist attacks and their aftermath. www.ces.purdue.edu/terrorism. University of Minnesota, Children, Youth & Family Consortium has information on how parents can help their children with their concerns, fears and worries about war. http://www.cyfc.umn.edu/publications/newsreleases/3-10-03nr.html Kansas State University Research and Extension has information on the impact of military deployment and related issues on families. http://www.humec.k-state.edu/news/2003/Militarymain.html University of Minnesota Extension Service, Restoring Hope in the Wake of Terrorism http://www.extension.umn.edu/administrative/disasterresponse/terrorism.html University of Minnesota Extension Service, Ready to Respond http://www.extension.umn.edu/administrative/disasterresponse/terror2.html University of Illinois Extension Service, Talking with Children about Terrorism and War http://web.aces.uiuc.edu/familylife/terrorism.htm New York University Child Study Center, Talking to Kids About Terrorism or Acts of War http://www.aboutourkids.org/articles/war.html Healthy Parenting Tool Kit is a joint effort of University of Missouri (Human Environmental Sciences and 4-H/ ParentLink) and Lincoln University. Materials cover topics related to parenting young children during times of deployment, relocation, and dangerous work. http://mfrc.calib.com/healthyparenting/dangerouswork.cfm The National Extension System has a website regarding children and trauma and the University of Georgia Extension has produced publications as well. http://www.agctr.lsu.edu/eden/default.aspx >From Georgia Extension: http://fcs.uga.edu/pubs/PDF/CHFD-E-10-1.pdf http://fcs.uga.edu/pubs/PDF/CHFD-E-10-2.pdf http://fcs.uga.edu/pubs/PDF/CHFD-E-10-6.pdf http://fcs.uga.edu/pubs/PDF/CHFD-E-19-03.pdf Center for the Family at Pepperdine University developed information on preparing for the war. http://www.pepperdine.edu/gsep/family/Families,%20Trauma,%20and%20Terrorism htm Families and Work Institute has developed a Salute to Educators guide that addressees age- and developmentally- appropriate tips on how to communicate with children in all situations of crisis, trauma and tragedy. http://www.familiesandwork.org/salute.html The Learning Network, Talking About Conflict and War http://www.familyeducation.com/article/0,1120,20-6055,00.html The Learning Network, Talking with Children about War - Pointers for Parents http://www.familyeducation.com/article/0,1120,1-4412,00.html Children Now, Talking with Kids about the News http://www.childrennow.org/television/twk-news.htm Family Information Services has a web page of resources on ?Families and Crisis.? http://familyinfoserv.com/crisis.html The Navy?s Roosevelt has a website and a ?lifeline? link to other services on what to say to children, especially when they have a loved one that is so far away. www.spear.navy.mil, www.navy.mil, and http://kidspeace.org/war.htm. ?Something to Remember Me By? Legacy Project has tips on helping children talk about and deal with war and terrorism, as well as activity ideas that children can do with parents and grandparents. http://www.somethingtoremembermeby.org/holidaykit/part2/hd2.6a.html >From the BBC, teaching resources on Iraq. http://news.bbc.co.uk/go/em/fr/-/cbbcnews/hi/teachers/citizenship_11_14/sub ject_areas/conflict_resolution/newsid_2280000/2280663.stm >From Chick Moorman, ?The Five Best and Worst Things You Can Say To Your Children About War.? http://www.ncfr.org/about_us/n_news_announcement.asp?newsid-407 ************************************************************** The Net Happenings mailing list is a service of Educational CyberPlayGround - http://www.edu-cyberpg.com/ ************************************************************** If you have any questions, concerns, suggestions, or would like to sponsor the Net Happenings service - <http://www.edu-cyberpg.com/Community/Subguidelines.html> Subscribe | Unsubscribe | Change Email Preferences - <http://www.edu-cyberpg.com/Community/NetHappenings.html> **************************************************************