This may not help with your friend's problem but what I did was use missing sync to sync my old phone with the Mac so I would be sure all my contacts were in the addressbook. Then I just did the regular sync via iTunes with my iPhone and all my contacts were transfered to the iPhone.
-- Cheryl "Where your treasure is, there will your heart be also."
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