Word of the Ward Meridian 14th Ward February 2002 Darkness cannot drive out darkness; only light can do that. Hate cannot drive out hate; only love can do that. -Martin Luther King, Jr. Bishopric Message I have been thinking about what I could write that would be inspiring and thought provoking. This is difficult for me: a man of simple education who struggles to put his thoughts to words on Sundays when I conduct. As I have thought about what to write, I return to the same topic each time. "The Pure Love of Christ." But how can one write about something, which is given to the heart; something that all righteous desires wrap themselves around. If the Pure Love of Christ has been born within the soul, when a question of direction comes in our lives, we automatically choose the direction based upon Christ, and that He suffered beyond what anyone can imagine because He loves us. Because we love him, we will choose a righteous course so He does not have to suffer and weep for us. One way to gain the Pure Love of Christ is by prayer and scripture study. I would like to give each of you a challenge. In your personal scripture study time, turn to the topical guide "Jesus Christ, Atonement through". Select the first scripture listed and turn to it. Take a pen and paper and kneel down. Turn to the scripture and read the passage. Pray for understanding and read it again. Write down the first thing to come to mind, even if it does not have anything to do with the scripture. The next day, move on to the next scripture on the list, and proceed to pray and write down your thoughts. Please continue for at least two weeks. After two weeks, look at what you have written down and see if there is a progression of understanding. Each day continue to read from the topical guide about Christ and his life, each time praying and writing. I promise you that your mind and heart will open to a greater understanding of the love that our Father in Heaven has for us. We love you and appreciate all of you for your support and service. Brother Bill Lewis High Priests We need to remember that though we make our friends, God has made our neighbors-everywhere. Love should have no boundary; we should have no narrow loyalties. Howard W. Hunter Elders In D&C 31:9, the Lord counsels husbands and fathers to "govern your house in meekness." According to President Harold B. Lee, "A meek man is defined as one who is not easily provoked or irritated and forbearing under injury or annoyance. Meekness is not synonymous with weakness. The meek man is the strong, the mighty, the man of complete self-mastery" (Decisions For Successful Living, p. 60). In order for households to be filled with love and peace, it is important that each of us become a master of oneself. Gaining control of our passions allows us to become more effective spouses and parents. President Brigham Young counseled: "Bring up your children in the love and fear of the Lord; study their dispositions and their temperaments, and deal with them accordingly, never allowing yourself to correct them in the heat of passion; teach them to love you rather than to fear you" (Teachings of Presidents of the Church: Brigham Young [1997], 172). The obtaining of self-mastery is a life long journey. Yet with faith in the Lord Jesus Christ, we can incorporate the virtue of meekness into our lives (See D&C 103: 36 & Moroni 10:32). Relief Society We would like to thank Sister Laura Brotherson for being our guest speaker at our last Home, Family and Personal Enrichment meeting. She spoke to us on depression in women and the signs and helps for us to watch for. She had some great handouts and the RS Presidency has extra copies if you need one. We are looking forward to the new year and al of the exciting HFPE nights we have planned. On February 5, we are so pleased to have Sister Joan Carpender as a guest speaker. If you have not heard what a dynamic and just plain fun person Sister Carpender is, you are in for a treat. Please come and be prepared to leave uplifted and spiritually fed. We have plenty of the new manual Teachings of Harold B. Lee. Just contact on of the RS Presidency and we will get you a copy. Also check with the sisters you visit teach and pick up copies for them if needed. It's a great way to show them you care. As a Presidency, we want all of the sisters to know how much you are loved. We pray for you and are constantly seeking ways to reach and serve you. Please help us by informing us of needs you see around you. May we all remember how blessed we are and how much our heavenly parents love us. Primary The theme for Primary for the month of February is: "My Family can be together forever through the blessings of the temple." It is exciting to be able to teach the children about the temple this year. We want to welcome Janet Koyle to our Primary Board. She will be teaching our CTR 6a class. We are excited to have her with us. Congratulations to Lauryn Barber and Brianna Davis on their recent baptisms. The Stake Primary Presidency visited us for ward conference and shared two very touching stories with us. It was a treat to have them with us. It is a great joy to be able to serve in the primary with all of your wonderful children. Marie Morgan Sunday School Love is like the Polar Star. In a changing world, it is a constant. It is of the very essence of the gospel. It is the security of the home. It is the safeguard of community life. It is a beacon of hope in a world of distress. Gordon B. Hinckley Young Men Much of our love is confined to mere lip service and dreams of good deeds accomplished, but true love must be expressed in unselfish acts of kindness that bring others closer to our Heavenly Father. Jack Goaslind, Jr. Young Women We are really excited about our new theme for this year: Standing in Holy Places. We are also excited about the new changes with the Young Women Personal Progress program. We are going to be talking about some of these changes and our new theme at New Beginnings. Our New Beginnings will be February 10 at 7:00 PM. We hope that all of the parents will try to come and support their young women. We are also thrilled to invite our new Beehives coming in this year and their parents to attend also. The young women who will be coming in are Chelsea Herrick, Rachel Haddon, Sara Haddon, Rachelle Pirak, and Breanna Koyle. February Birthdays: 2) Karine Maynard 11) Kimberly Cook 28) Christa Rock Activities Committee A reminder to all parents of Cub Scouts that the Blue and Gold banquet will be held this month. Contact your son's Cub Scout leader for more information. Missionaries & Servicemen Elder Matt Shaffer Florida Jacksonville Mission 8651 Bay Pine Road Ste 104 Jacksonville FL 32256 Elder Tim Brown Kurzbauergasse 3 / 4 1020 Wien AUSTRIA Brandon Cox Jonathon O'Toole Ward Leaders Bishop Neil Barson 362-9541 Counselor Bill Lewis 288-0829 Counselor Scott Lloyd 362-1981 High Priests Group Leader Joel Dixon 362-9228 Elder's President JulioPineda 562-8090 Ward Mission Leader Michael Brown 362-9116 Relief Society President Marilyn Lewis 288-1581 Young Men's President Rex Cook 887-9487 Young Women's President Kathleen Clements 562-1559 Primary President Marie Morgan 888-2510 Sunday School President Shawn Patterson 362-2671