Seems like my life on this list is a typo. I was frustrated with what seemed to me Mike's "constantly" opposing me. I take unpopular positions, so inevitably everyone "opposes" me. Mike made some valid points. Truly, Mike, I'm sorry. I appreciate your comments, even if we disagree. ----- Original Message ----- From: Andy Amago To: lit-ideas@xxxxxxxxxxxxx Sent: 6/6/2006 9:29:50 AM Subject: [lit-ideas] Re: amazing employment application questions The ESL was a typo. I meant ASL. English Sign Language is a hybrid between English and Sign. It's a cumbersome method intended to placate English-speaking hearing people; instead of an entirely separate language, it takes English and literally translates it into sign. But I did mean ASL. Regarding parents not learning ASL for a profoundly deaf child, there's no way to dance around that one. They simply can't communicate with their child, the result of which is that the child is cognitively impaired as well as almost existentially isolated. Teaching oralism to a profoundly deaf child who can't hear from birth is like teaching a blind person to see. Harold's situation seems almost exactly that of Henry Kisor's, who was also deafened with meningitis at around the same age. It's truly wonderful that the hearing loss has been merely a nuisance for him. Harold's done better than most hearing people. Kisor also functioned well in a hearing world. Mike, you say my speculations seem warrantless to you, but then all my speculations on any subject seem warrantless to you. It's almost a knee jerk reaction, that you have to oppose anything I write. And good news, I found my papers. I was sure I had culled them out from my notebooks, and indeed, there they all were, I found them this morning, hidden away in a folder in the bookcase. BTW, has anyone seen the movie Children of a Lesser God? It's about deafness as well. There is some symbolism in that movie along with the plot. ----- Original Message ----- From: Mike Geary To: lit-ideas@xxxxxxxxxxxxx Sent: 6/6/2006 12:26:27 AM Subject: [lit-ideas] Re: amazing employment application questions AA: >> the "what's that pig outdoors" is what he heard when his father said >> something that had nothing to do with pigs or outdoors.<< Actually it was Kisor's son who came running in and asked: "What's that big noise?" Kisor went to the window and looking out asked: "What pig outdoors?" The two expressions look almost identical to a lip-reader, they say. >> At any rate, your student really does sound like someone who rejected her >> deafness and tried to fit into a hearing world, probably with great loss to >> herself. I wonder if it's because her family didn't want to be bothered >> learning ESL, I'm just speculating. << Unless the family didn't speak English there would be no need to learn ESL (English as a Second Language), however they might have found ASL helpful which is American Sign Language. Your speculations seem warrantless to me. The debate among the deaf as to whether Signing or Oralism is the best approach to education of the deaf has raged for centuries. Here is a summary of the varying arguments for both sides: "Oralists believe that by not providing the option to sign they are helping children by forcing them to develop oral communication skills. My opinion is simply that every decision we make in life involves a trade off. Time spent teaching a child to talk could have been invested teaching that child to sign. As with any decision you have to weigh the costs against the benefits--both long term and immediate. As with any purchase you have to ask yourself, am I getting the best value for my money? The moment you start talking about "values" you will find yourself surrounded with controversy because people value different things. Some parents value having a child who can communicate orally. Other parents value making sure that a child has maximum early cognitive development. Some parents value having a child that speaks the same language as them. Other parents value new experiences and are willing to learn whatever language best fits the need of their child. Some parents feel it is better to be able to communicate in a stilted manner with millions of people. Other parents feel it is better to be able to communicate fluently with a smaller number of people. The best decision as to the communication mode of a child will depend on many factors. Are the parents cognitively and situationally capable of effectively learning a second language? Some adults are simply not going to succeed at picking up sign language at their stage in life. Does the family live in an area where there is a strong Deaf community and opportunities for signed communication? How much residual hearing does the child possess? Is there a Deaf School nearby? What does the child want? Are there other Deaf children around who are using a particular mode of communication?" So you see, the question is a little more complicated than you suggest. Oralism is not "rejecting one's deafness" any more than physical therapy is "rejecting one's handicap". And though one need not be deaf to have an opinion on the matter, it strikes me as irrelevant. If the young woman was a lip-reader I can fully understand why she'd prefer to do that than have someone sign to her. She was lucky she had John as a teacher and not Nietzsche. Mike Geary Memphis