Clare, I agree with Jim here. Loosing your sight in later life is very hard to cope with. You say you have never seen and you cope in your world. When, like me, you loose your sight at the age of 42 years, its frightening to say the least. You have one world you no and cope with. We had one world we lived in and coped with. Then suddenly we enter a whole new world of blindness and nearly all we have learnt over the years has gone out of the window. You have to start learning all over again like a new born baby. You have to change all you knew for new ways of doing the simplest things. like eating, dressing. moving around the house with other people in it. Its hard for them to because they don't understand blindness and they have to learn. The list is endless. And if you live alone like me and you want to stay independent you have to learn how to use the cooker, washer and many other things in the kitchen. Like you say Clare, Its hard for all of us. But were all different in so many ways, there's no easy answers. love Malcolm. xxx Hi Jim, thank you so much for sharing this it's very much appreciated. I always love hearing different points of view. I'm very happy I bought this important subject up. I look forward to hearing others points of view on this matter. So in a way it seems I do have an advantage as I have never known any different with being totally blind from birth. This is my world and all I have ever known. Love Clare