Well Sarah it's not you and Jamie becoming close that bothers me. It was the awful way you went about it. You should have told me the situation privately in our personal emails instead of letting me find out on group. That was very cruel and I know that if I did something like that to you I know you wouldn't be happy either. Yes I thought I knew you but I'm not sure now. Just give me some time to myself for a while to calm down as I'm a bit hurt at the moment so just give me some space. Love Clare