I call it 'practicing whoa'. It starts when I climb into the carriage. I NEVER ask the horses to drive off right away. I always sit there for several minutes putting on gloves, fixing my hair or doing something as an excuse to stand. Horses have great memories and are smart as heck. Whatever you do with them is a learning experience. I try and keep that thought whenever I'm around them, whether driving or not. When my horses were novice driving horses, I'd find a tree and park in the shade. I used the whip and voice to calm the one who got antsy, or would turn around to see what the heck I was doing for so long. Eventually they learn to conserve energy, relax and maybe even take little nap. Just as it takes practice for them to learn to bend, it takes practice for horses to learn to remain standing quietly, when asked. IMHO, it's the most important command in driving. Always pay attention to the body language. Talk to them quietly and rub them with the whip if one gets anxious. A soothing, quiet voice helps too. Another trick is taking a long time to groom and harness. I know we don't always have the time, but with novice horses, that's important. I would even sing to them. They'd be so bored and relaxed, they'd be falling asleep. Once they learn what you expect of them, you can take less time grooming and harnessing. But in the beginning, it takes more time and effort. If they fall back into old habits, then it's back to the drawing board, reminding them what is expected. Obviously, this doesn't work well if you have a bunch of horses to work. Hope this helps someone. Helen www.drivingpairs.com _________________________________________________________ To Unsubscribe, change to Digest or Vacation mode go to: http://www.drivingpairs.com/index.php?pg=2 `````````````````````````````````````````````````````````