Don's Patch #59 from http://www.don-guitar.com December 1, 2006 First word, from Don: Life has kept us awfully busy just lately but I did get around to looking into the IE7 download and was surprised to find that IE7 isn't available for Win2K. I bought this computer somewhere around two years ago and paid over twice the price of XP Home for Win2K Pro because I didn't want XP. After reading negative reviews from more than a few people whom I felt knew a lot more about computers than I do I refused to buy XP nor have I for even a moment regretted my decision. Now there are reviews coming in on Vista from people I trust, like this one from Chris Pirello. http://snipurl.com/13pe4 I have even less interest in Vista that I have in XP and since the handwriting is on the wall with regards to the future of my Win2K machine it looks to me like Microsoft is doing all they can to help me make the 'big switch' to Linux. I wasn't ready yet, because I know how to do mostly everything I want to do in Windows and I'm still a fumbling newbie in Linux, but they aren't giving me too much choice in the matter. I'll keep my Win2K system for as long as it's supported. http://www.cafeid.com/art-win2k.shtml http://blogs.msdn.com/ie/archive/2005/05/27/422721.aspx After that, I'll probably install a Linux OS on this computer. Then I'll have to decide if I want to acquire another Windows computer but right now I can't say one way or the other about that. As has always been the case with Microsoft products, for me at least, I'll make that decision when it's forced upon me. We're still 'locked out' of our website, unable to add or alter any of our pages but I should have us set up with a new web host soon. *shrug* I'm trying anyway. See you next time. Don P.S. The next issue will be the last one in 2006 and will be published a few days before Christmas. Pass on any thoughts or observations you'd like to share with our readers. What the heck, we'd love it if you wrote our next issue. *grin* Don's feedback form: http://www.don-guitar.com/contactme.html Lisa's feedback form: http://www.don-guitar.com/lfefo.html Our personal news page. http://www.don-guitar.com/babbleon.html Don at myspace.com http://www.myspace.com/donguitar Don's blog. http://blog.myspace.com/donguitar Lisa at myspace.com. http://www.myspace.com/81825549 Lisa's blog. http://blog.myspace.com/81825549 ªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªª I have a lot of friends who are single and lonely. If they're religious I encourage them to go to a different church every Sunday, if they aren't religious, I try to persuade them to join a singles club. It's not as much about meeting "that special someone" as it is about simply having a social life and hanging out with other single people, the more the merrier. That being said, if you're something of a risk taker or have an adventurous spirit, there are many websites that can help you meet other single people, just be very, very careful, meet only in public places until you get to know him or her better and don't surrender any personal information beyond your name and a 'disposable' email address to anyone you don't know and trust. You'll have to register with most singles sites and that's ok, just give them a made-up last name and if they require a mailing address give them a fake one. Ok, now that I've given you the disclaimer, here's the websites. http://www.match.com/home/myhome.aspx http://www.hookup.com/index.php http://person.com/ http://www.date.com/ http://www.eharmony.com/ http://www.agematch.com/ Another problem that seems to plague people these days is gainful employment. Technology is gradually taking jobs away from people. That's how it is, that's how it's always been, and it's a growing kind of thing; every year there are more jobs lost to advancements in technology. The number of jobs is falling and the level of education and specialized training associated with the remaining jobs is rising. This hasn't affected entry level jobs particularly, every convenience store and fast food restaurant I see seems to have a "Help Wanted" sign in the window but these are very challenging jobs, they don't pay much, and not everybody looks good in a paper hat. *grin* Here are some sites that might be helpful with employment. http://www.consumersearch.com/www/internet/job-sites/ http://www.rileyguide.com/ http://www.4icj.com/ I remember when new car buyers went for whatever car they thought was the 'coolest' but these days we have to consider fuel economy and long term operating costs when buying a car. http://money.cnn.com/2006/11/08/autos/cr_most_reliable/ 640 X 480 videos on a multitude of topics (best with a fast connection). http://www.640480.com/home.html Here's a fun little game where you get to throw paper wads at your fellow office workers. Just use my favorite bogus email address to get in, fake(at)fake.com. http://www.career.com.au/ The Network Abuse Clearinghouse. http://www.abuse.net/ The Anti Defamation League. http://www.adl.org/ A directory of all those little acronyms people like to use in their email and instant messages. http://www.aim.com/acronyms.adp?aolp=0 If you need answers, start with google, but if you want to discuss the answers, or share your expertise with others, start here. http://www.allexperts.com/ American RadioWorks, media intense but interesting. http://americanradioworks.publicradio.org/ ªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªª This publication is only mailed to verified double opt-in subscribers, and is brought to you by me, Don Crowder, my wife, Lisa Miller, and //www.freelists.org ªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªª The last of their kind. Sponge diver. http://snipurl.com/13nn4 Marshman. http://www.edp24.co.uk/Broads/asp/EricEdwards.asp Yahi-Yana Indian. http://www.nmnh.si.edu/anthro/ishitop.htm Godfather. http://snipurl.com/13ol7 Castrati. http://www.compulink.co.uk/~velluti/cast-what.htm Confederate son. http://snipurl.com/13olt Galapagos tortoise. http://www.tortoisetrust.org/articles/george.html Learn Morse Code in one minute. http://www.learnmorsecode.com/ How to manage; Geeks. http://www.fastcompany.com/online/25/geeks.html Smart people. http://www.scottberkun.com/essays/essay28.htm Your classroom. http://www.nea.org/tips/manage/index.html Some health problems may be preventable. http://www.webmd.com/content/article/130/117597.htm http://www.medicinenet.com/script/main/art.asp?articlekey=77672 http://ndep.nih.gov/diabetes/prev/prevention.htm The Andes Flight disaster in 1972 was a monument to faith, hope and the human spirit. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Uruguayan_Air_Force_Flight_571 Everything you need to know about the DOT. http://www.dot.gov/ Copyright crash course. http://www.utsystem.edu/ogc/Intellectualproperty/cprtindx.htm Galileo, his time, his peers, his society and what his work means to us. http://galileo.rice.edu/science.html ªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªª At the time this issue was posted, the current subscriber count for this publication was 340. ªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªª This issue's collection of news/magazine/informational sites (these are chosen for maximum diversity regardless of "spin" ). http://infowars.com/index.html http://www.smh.com.au/ http://www.symmetrymagazine.org/cms/?pid=0 http://www.taipeitimes.com/News/ http://www.tallahassee.com/apps/pbcs.dll/frontpage http://www.tampabay.com/ http://www.tcsdaily.com/ http://www.theday.com/ http://www.thenation.com/ http://unionrecorder.com/ http://www.weeklystandard.com/default.asp http://www.witness.co.za/ http://www.theblackmarket.com/ ªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªª Americans in Paris, 1860-1900. http://www.metmuseum.org/special/Americans_in_Paris/ Doesn't seem to do much. http://snipurl.com/13nzs A virtual gallery of 19th century art. http://www.artmagick.com/ The Baltimore Museum of Art. http://artbma.org/exhibitions/online.html Warning, naked people. http://www.barewitness.org/ http://www.baringwitness.org/ Old scheme, new twist. http://www.bbb.org/Alerts/article.asp?ID=436 Jodi lives in New York and is Jewish. This is her blog. http://www.jodiverse.com/ An interesting portal of reading matter collected, and partially written by John Dickson. http://www.cavcomp.demon.co.uk/bazaar/index.html I had a great laugh the first time I saw this message on the door of a computer room and I really enjoyed reading the history and seeing the German version of it. Check it out. http://dict.die.net/blinkenlights/ Another online bible. http://www.blueletterbible.org/index.html The National (U.S. I assume) Book Foundation. http://www.nationalbook.org/ Parable of the broken window. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Parable_of_the_broken_window Trends in browser usage, operating systems and screen resolution. http://www.w3schools.com/browsers/browsers_stats.asp Children's Literature. http://www.ucalgary.ca/~dkbrown/ The Christmas Story, from the Met. http://www.metmuseum.org/explore/Christmas_Story/intro.html College Scholarships, colleges, and online degrees. http://www.college-scholarships.com/ The most common words in English. http://www.world-english.org/english500.htm This is probably a good idea but my first thought was; Who watches the watchers? http://www.consumerlab.com/ ªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªª If you'd like to help promote this non-commercial publication, please forward this ezine to anyone you know who might appreciate it. 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Are you sure? http://snipurl.com/13ovg *My* drug-of-choice. http://www.chocolate.org/ Still my favorite translation site. http://babelfish.altavista.com/ Go ahead and admit it, you like him. http://www.barrynet.com/ The Endangered Species Program. http://www.fws.gov/Endangered/ 80's TV Supersite. http://www.80stvthemes.com/ If you live for candy, or at least can't live without it. http://candyaddict.com/blog/ Linux security for the extremely paranoid. http://www.lids.org/ Reducing and eliminating domestic violence. http://www.silentwitness.net/ Molly E. Holzschlag, web development work and personal thoughts. http://molly.com/ Complementary and alternative therapies. http://naturalstandard.com/ The maturing of America. http://www.n4a.org/pdf/MOAFinalReport.pdf The Open-Source mind-set has expanded to include many facets of life. Religion. http://yoism.org/ http://snipurl.com/13ox2 Community, http://www.eclipse.org/ Education. http://ocw.mit.edu/index.html Democracy. http://wikocracy.com/wiki/index.php/Main_Page Political Campaigns. http://campaigns.wikia.com/wiki/Campaigns_Wikia News. http://www.wikinews.org/ ªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªª Our feedback form: http://www.don-guitar.com/contactme.html We welcome all comments, suggestions, or criticism. The form doesn't access your email client (it's a CGI form), so your privacy is assured. If you know of a website that would be a good candidate for this ezine, please pass it on via our online feedback form (link above). ªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªª Crafts for kids. http://www.enchantedlearning.com/crafts/ This is an annoying little game and it's in German so it's a fair challenge just to figure out how to play it. I'm a terrible driver. http://www.danskebank.dk/link/parkeringspil If you're a nut for statistics, here's a book full. http://www.census.gov/compendia/smadb/ Desiree McCrorey's crafty how-tos. http://desiredcreations.com/howTo_Desk.htm Do-it-yourself projects and technology updates. http://www.diylive.net/ There's a great deal to explore at the United Kingdom's National Archives. http://www.nationalarchives.gov.uk/ I'm a bad pig drawer, are you? http://snipurl.com/13olj Educational games for kids. http://snipurl.com/13olq Election 2008 countdown. http://election2008.tom-hanna.org/ Election reform activists. http://www.electionline.org/ Stanford Initiative on the Environment and Sustainability. http://environment.stanford.edu/ Manet and the Execution of Maximilian. http://www.moma.org/exhibitions/2006/Manet/index.htm If there's an eclectic sort of subject which you happen to know a very great deal about, perhaps it would be profitable for you to hook up with these folks. http://expertpages.com/ Famous American Natives. http://photoswest.org/exhib/faves/famsNAintro.htm On the topic of converting files from one format to another. http://media-convert.com/ http://www.zamzar.com/ Art and technology. http://www.msstate.edu/Fineart_Online/ One of the ads on this page was, to me, repulsive beyond description (blinking black, gray and white) but this is an impressive list of online Flash games. http://www.games1.org/ Geology dot com is cool. http://geology.com/ More often than not, history has been built on pie in the sky. http://www.pbs.org/wgbh/amex/goldrush/ A blog that's about Google. http://blog.outer-court.com/ A resource for pilots, the Great Circle Mapper. http://gc.kls2.com/ Don't let this site go to your head. http://headwize.com/ Interactive health tutorials. http://www.nlm.nih.gov/medlineplus/tutorials.html Remembering the Holocaust. http://www.remember.org/ http://www.ushmm.org/ http://www.holocausttestimonies.com/ ªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªª Archives for this ezine are available online here: //www.freelists.org/archives/donspatch/ The current issue is also available on our website. http://www.don-guitar.com/currentissue.html RSS feed is available via this link. //www.freelists.org/archives/donspatch/feed.rss ªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªª Virtual Library Museums pages. http://vlmp.museophile.com/ Websites for book lovers. http://www.wblib.org/readerscorner/bookreview.html The Great Internet Mersenne Prime Search. http://www.mersenne.org/prime.htm Email notifier that alerts you when you have new email. http://www.poppeeper.com/ Adventures on the yacht Maiken. http://snipurl.com/13p0x Making Linux a little more fun. http://linuxgazette.net/ Love Linux? Sit down and be counted! http://counter.li.org/ For fans of mystery fiction. http://www.themysteryreader.com/ Save, invest, and manage your money better. http://www.mymoney.gov/ Offline NT password and registry editor. http://home.eunet.no/pnordahl/ntpasswd/ Yeah, but who did it first? A cover songs database. http://www.secondhandsongs.com/home/ The geographic distribution of poverty. http://www.ers.usda.gov/publications/err26/err26.pdf Costless goodies from Lee. http://www.leebies.com/ Online expeditions to wilderness areas of the world. http://www.oneworldjourneys.com/ Lots and lots of games. http://www.freeworldgroup.com/game.html Science animations, movies & interactive tutorial links. http://science.nhmccd.edu/biol/animatio.htm If you love romance novels, this site is for you. http://www.theromancereader.com/ A history of Peter Pan. http://www.c20th.com/pphistintro.htm ªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªª Websites everyone should know about. 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Vaughan-Nichols. http://www.desktoplinux.com/articles/AT5272648562.html David Acosta's Fotodav. http://www.fotodav.com/index2_en.php? SITO is a website for individual and collaborative artists. http://www.sito.org/ Sound Portraits (if you're on a dial up connection this one may not be worth visiting). http://www.soundportraits.org/ Unsolicited Commercial Email (UCE). What is it? What can you do about it? A mini-series. http://www.ftc.gov/spam/ http://cc.uoregon.edu/cnews/fall2002/spamreport.html http://spam.abuse.net/ http://www.silicon.com/research/specialreports/thespamreport/ http://www.cdt.org/speech/spam/030319spamreport.shtml] http://www.cdt.org/spam/ http://www.usdoj.gov/spam.htm http://snipurl.com/13p7w Random images. http://wallpaper.freestone-group.com/ http://www.gardens-to-go.org.uk/wallpapers.htm ============== Humor ============= Humorous Memorial It is with the saddest heart I pass on the following: Please join me in remembering a great icon-the veteran Pillsbury spokesman, the Pillsbury Doughboy died yesterday of complications from repeated pokes in the belly and a chronic yeast infection. He was 71. Doughboy was buried in a lightly greased coffin. Dozens of celebrities turned out to pay their respects, including Mrs. Butterworth, Hungry Jack, the California Raisins, Betty Crocker, the Hostess Twinkies, and Captain Crunch. The gravesite was piled high with flours, as longtime friend, Aunt Jemima delivered the eulogy, describing Doughboy as a man who never knew how much he was kneaded. Doughboy rose quickly in show business, but his later life was filled with turnovers. He was not considered a very "smart" cookie, wasting much of his dough on half-baked schemes. Despite being a little flaky at times, he even still, as a crusty old man, was considered a roll model for millions. Toward the end it was thought he would rise again, but alas, he was no tart. Doughboy is survived by his wife, Play Dough, two children, John Dough, and Jane Dough, plus they had one in the oven. He is also survived by his elderly father, Pop Tart. The funeral was held at 3:50 for about twenty minutes. ============== Tips =============== Computer articles, presentations, and tutorials. http://vlaurie.com/index.html Photoshop and Flash tutorials. http://www.tutorialized.com/ Computer Tutorials for Teachers. http://www.compusmart.ab.ca/alummis/ ======== Reader Contributions ========= Links from readers are always welcome and you can even write your own link descriptions if you like. Guidelines are available here: http://www.don-guitar.com/descriptivetext.html ================================= From our web sibling Jerry Fox. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ High speed videos, slowed down. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MX6aerxQPOs A cute little seasonal game. http://ww12.e-tractions.com/snowglobe/globe.htm Video of everyday things in when microwaved. http://www.wontonway.com/microwave/microwave.html Other oddness from the same source. http://www.wontonway.com/ ================================= From reader and friend Foggy. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ 3D stereograms. http://www.eyetricks.com/3dstereo.htm A collection of gadgets built with, or into, Altoids tins. http://www.makezine.com/blog/archive/altoids_and_tin_cases/ http://www.jetcityorange.com/AltoidsTin/ http://www.readymademag.com/feature_12_macgyver.php http://www.instructables.com/id/EPPC376VIVES9J473W/ http://www.diylive.net/index.php/2005/11/05/altoids-pocket-amplifier/ http://desiredcreations.com/howTo_PJCoverAltoid.htm http://www.headwize.com/projects/showproj.php?file=cmoy2b_add_prj.htm http://candyaddict.com/blog/2005/11/02/things-to-do-with-altoids-tins/ ================================= From reader and friend, Irving Stein. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Where would you like to live? http://www.findyourspot.com/ Need a bootdisk? http://www.bootdisk.com/utility.htm Brain dots game. http://cognitivelabs.com/braindots_test.htm Information provided by the FBI under the Freedom of Information Act. http://foia.fbi.gov/index.html IEToys. http://www.bayden.com/ietoys/ ================================= From our web sibling Jo-Ann Burton. http://groups.yahoo.com/group/sharinglinks2/ ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Of and pertaining to Literature (descriptions by Jo) . Literary Encyclopedia and Dictionary. http://www.litencyc.com/ Literary blogs. http://www.complete-review.com/saloon/ http://www.chekhovsmistress.com/ Literary History. http://www.literaryhistory.com/ Literary Locales has more than 1000 picture links to places that figure into the lives and writings of famous authors. http://www2.sjsu.edu/depts/english/places.htm Literary Quotes. http://www.brainyquote.com/quotes/keywords/literary.html Find out which books and authors are winning all the Literary Awards. http://www.bookwire.com/bookwire/otherbooks/Book-Awards.html http://www.middlebury.edu/academics/blwc/bakeless Learn about literary theory. http://www.iep.utm.edu/l/literary.htm http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Literary_theory http://andromeda.rutgers.edu/~jlynch/Lit/theory.html Literary criticism. http://www.ipl.org/div/litcrit/guide.html Literary analysis. http://english.unitecnology.ac.nz/resources/resources/literary.html Take a literary tour of Nebraska http://mockingbird.creighton.edu/NCW/tour.htm Visit this glossary of literary terms. http://www.uncp.edu/home/canada/work/allam/general/glossary.htm Become a literary traveler, taking literary themed vacations. http://www.literarytraveler.com/ Take a literary pilgrimage. http://www.terryballard.org/literar2.htm Arts and Letters Daily is a must see for anyone who loves to read. http://aldaily.com/ Today in Literature is a calendar of engaging stories about literary history. http://www.todayinliterature.com/ Browse though some online literary journals. http://www.absinthe-literary-review.com/ http://www.litjournal.com/ http://calitreview.com/ http://www.greentricycle.com/ The Online Literature Library. http://www.literature.org/ The Children's Literature Web Guide ( a favorite site of mine). http://www.ucalgary.ca/~dkbrown/index.html Carol Hurst's Children's Literature site. http://www.carolhurst.com/ One more for children's literature. http://www.childrenslit.com/ A Guide to European Literature. http://www.lib.virginia.edu/wess/etexts.html Medieval Literature (Jo is a confirmed addict of things-medieval). http://www.luminarium.org/lumina.htm Arabic Literature. http://www.al-bab.com/arab/literature/lit.htm African Literature. http://www-sul.stanford.edu/depts/ssrg/africa/lit.html English Literature. http://www.english-literature.org/resources/ The Nobel Prize in Literature. http://nobelprize.org/nobel_prizes/literature/ Project Gutenberg: Free books online. http://www.gutenberg.org/wiki/Main_Page The Internet Public Library. http://www.ipl.org/div/subject/browse/hum60.00.00 Here is a directory of literary journals. http://www.zeroland.co.nz/literature_journals.html Here is a directory for literary magazines. http://www.newpages.com/NPGuides/litmags.htm The Literary Biography Depository. http://www.sc.edu/library/spcoll/amlit/litbio.html This site tells you the birthdates of many authors past and present. http://www.waterborolibrary.org/birth.htm The History Channel's This Day in History (the literary pages). http://snipurl.com/13s6l This looks like a fun place for anyone that likes to write. http://www.litkicks.com/ The Writers Guide. http://web.uvic.ca/wguide/Pages/MasterToc.html ================================= From our web sibling John Lepse. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Goodies. http://www.concisefreeware.com/ Email etiquitte. http://www.netmanners.com/ Eyewitness to History. http://www.eyewitnesstohistory.com/ Science Now, from Nova. http://www.pbs.org/wgbh/nova/sciencenow/ ================================= From reader and friend Lee Parmeter. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Portable media players that are also Linux friendly. http://www.cowonamerica.com/ ================================= From our web sibling Patrick Barden. http://rrwbushangel.blogspot.com/ ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Get flaky for a good cause. http://www.popularfront.com/snowdays/ Thank you Jerry, Foggy, Irv, Jo, John, Lee and Patrick. ================================= Last word, from Lisa: Recently we've been become more intensively involved in home health care because Don's mom had a broken hip, has moderate dementia and has been diagnosed with lymphoma. I'm finding out there are numerous resources and information available on the subject but one of the biggest hurdles to overcome is the reluctance to ask for help. This issue I've listed a few resources that may be useful, now or in the future, for caregivers.. People who are caregivers by nature often wait until they are exhausted, depressed and plagued by feelings of resentment before they ask for help. Help doesn't have to be a big deal; asking the patient's friends from church to visit on a regular basis, taking the afternoon to visit a nearby friend's house, calling another friend or relative and asking that person to help out for a few hours, in other words, not feeling isolated, tired and alone. This is help. It's not selfish to maintain your body and spirits so you're up for the next challenge. This past week or so much of the family has visited to see Mom, especially Thanksgiving day. I got to see family members I hadn't met yet, we got to visit all day and rest and Mom got to be the center of attention. We bought and they brought food and washed dishes. At day's end we'd had a wonderful time, lots of leftovers and a clean kitchen. Can we do this next week? Lisa Lisa's feedback form: http://www.don-guitar.com/lfefo.html Don's feedback form: http://www.don-guitar.com/contactme.html Lisa at myspace.com. http://www.myspace.com/81825549 Lisa's blog. http://blog.myspace.com/81825549 Don at myspace.com http://www.myspace.com/donguitar Don's blog. http://blog.myspace.com/donguitar Our personal news page. http://www.don-guitar.com/babbleon.html Don Crowder and Lisa Miller Thursday, December 1, 2006 3:45 AM CST - Buchanan Lake Village, Texas, USA Served by the U.S. Post Office in Tow (rhymes-with-cow), Texas ªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªªª Privacy: We will never share, sell, or otherwise compromise your email address. 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