Dear All
In my experience with constellations I sometimes see the following dynamic.
There is a perpetrator and a victim. When things can't move although they
look at each other there is often a third person involved. When I set up
that person they become a 'stable triangle' where no movement is possible,
no reconciliation. This third person is the one who had a judgement on what
happened without being in tune with the greater forces or fate. When I then
let the third person step backwards until he is out of sight for the
perpetrator and victim, they both are relieved and the work can start. Then
the reconciliation process starts and in the end both can find peace and the
dynamic can be over for the later generations. Sometimes the third person
who is far away from the process has to bow for the fate of these two people
and turn around. Usually when this situation shows in a constellation, the
third person is the one with the greatest anger, and not the victim or the
perpetrator.
I realise that in our work or in our life (or in CT) we often are in the
position of this third person. We can make the difference if we stay tuned
to the greater forces, to fate and work in the service of reconciliation.
The soul always moves into this direction.
So maybe we can use the light of the constellations to understand these
psychological models like 'triangles' in a different way.
With love
Margreet Mossel
The Netherlands
www.opstellingen.com <http://www.opstellingen.com/>
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Verzonden: dinsdag 4 maart 2008 14:35
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Onderwerp: [ConstellationTalk] Re: Crime and punishment
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And what was the missing angle?
Alison
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