You may wish to help Dan Thompson out here. Bob Acosta ----- Original Message ----- From: dan To: dan Sent: Tuesday, April 02, 2013 8:38 AM Subject: blindness issues in the general public Hi List Members, I am on a newly formed inclussion committee at my church. We publish a bi-weekly newsletter "The Evangel" and would like to use this venue for educating our congregation about various disabilities. This will additonally help parents have children with specail needs to feel more comfortable. We are also going tooffer some general training for the Sunday School Teachers and class room aids. Below is a list of blindness issues I have encountered and have been provided from others. If anyone has anything to add to this list, will you please send the article below back with your additions. I usually don't use my lists as a vehicle to ask this type of information. But strongly believe the better educated the public is, there will be less uncomfortable situations. Thank all of you for your input. Blindness and/or low vision tips http://mycheesegrits.hubpages.com/hub/Pet-Peeves-of-the-Blind-and-Visually-Impaired 1. When printingout a document for a persion with Low vision or is legally blind, , usually the best font size is 18 and use Arial black or Arial Bold as a font type. 2. Blowing up a document to a larger size of print on a copier is not the same as enlarging the font. 3. When embossing a document, make sure "smart quotes" is turned off in your wordprocessor when saving the file for embossing. 4. When working on a computer or other device with a screen, make sure glair Is limited and there is plenty of lighting. Dio not sit in front of a window with the sun shining directly off the screen or document being read. 5. Don't make the visually impaired person have to play the guessing game. When in conversation, say your name and call them by their name. Many times a person's voice is identifiable. However, there are those times when meeting a person in a different environment, their voice will not be recognized. 6. Being afraid of the "S" word. Someone can be talking to a VI person and say something like, "Let's go see what's for lunch." Then they gasp and think, oh no, I shouldn't have said "see"! Lighten up. Everyone uses "see" and "look" and "watch out!" Even the VI person. 7. I'm blind, not deaf. HELLO, HOW ARE YOU?? Which goes along with one of my own pet peeves: "You teach blind kids? So you must know sign language?" Um, NO. I know braille. I wish I had a dime for every time someone asked me that - to include administrators during an interview. Sometimes they "get it", but sometimes they don't, but that's okay because I've just deducted 5 IQ points from them. .) I wonder if teachers of the hearing impaired get asked if they know braille... 8. VI people can hear everything. The flip side of #3, people assume the visually impaired have so much better hearing than the rest of us. No, but they do rely on it much more, so they are probably listening and paying attention better. Not necessarily paying attention to the teacher, though. They also don't have visual "distractors" so to speak, so they can focus more on what they hear. Unless they don't want to hear it, of course. They are human, after all. 9. "I don't really believe he's blind, even with that white cane. I'm not moving from this side of the hallway." That attitude will leave you sprawled out on the floor when the VI person barrels into you. Here's a good rule: Don't play chicken with a blind person. You will always lose. Instead, get out of the way, or at least make yourself known by saying something or making a noise. 10. Holding out your hand to shake theirs without touching their hand. If that person cannot see your hand, how is he/she supposed to know where your hand is? Answer: They will often extend their hand in anticipation, but if not, tell them you would like to shake their hand and then reach out and take their hand. Same thing goes for handing them something. You would be amazed how many times this happens. "Here's your homework," and then you hold it out in space. Or, even better, don't say anything at all and hold it out. Again, exactly how is he/she going to know where it is? Grope about for it? Sometimes groping is okay, like for finding a dropped item. But when handing things to the visually impaired, please touch their hand with it so they know where it is. Oh, good grief.Pin It Ryan Seacrest tries to high-5 blind Scott MacIntyre on American Idol. Get a clue, Ryan! 11. Low expectations. This includes: the "pity" person (Oh, you poor blind child. You must have a terrible life.), the "know-it-all" (Dr. so-and-so can work miracles. I know because my grandmother/nephew/dog has 20-20 now.), "Mr. Helper" (Let me do that, I know it's too hard for you.), the "excuse-maker" (I don't want him/her to learn how to make a [insert food here] because they might cut/burn/make a mess. You can't go on that field trip because there might be a terrorist attack and I would worry.), the "denial/embarrassed person" (Don't use your cane at the store so people won't know you're blind.), and unfortunately, the list goes on and on. Low expectation is probably the worst thing one person can do to another, regardless of abilities. If you aim for low performance, that's likely what you'll get. Don't be an enabler. Being too over-protective will dramatically hinder the VI's progress toward independence and living a happy, social, productive life. Step back. Allow them to fail, get a minor injury, and make their own mistakes. That's how we all learn. Don't forbid them these opportunities. 12. Would you like to feel my face? Whoa. Do you ask sighted people if they'd like to feel your face? First of all, a blind person is not going to get a lot of information from feeling a face, other than maybe the shape of your nose. There are times when it is appropriate, such as when learning parts of the body. But if you are not immediate family, allowing a VI person to "feel" you is very inappropriate. And there are some VI who will attempt to do just that because they know many people aren't sure about that protocol. Their hand needs to stay in a handshake, and not move up your arm, and certainly nowhere else! If you wouldn't let a sighted person feel you, don't let a blind one. I've answered this question a lot from sighted people who have felt awkward allowing this to happen. Well, they feel awkward for a reason! It's not socially acceptable! Feeling your hair, or the lack of it, can be appropriate depending on the circumstances. I've also had this question from a parent: How will my son know what a particular girl looks like? Answer: His friends will tell him!!! Oh yes, they will. ) 13, Rudeness. It's usually just ignorance, but don't assume that any VI person automatically needs help. Grabbing the person's arm and pulling them along is wrong on several levels. We know you're probably just trying to be nice, but don't. First, always ask the person if they would like some assistance. Then, use the sighted guide technique correctly. Offer your arm and let them hold it, usually right above the elbow. Also, if there are several people with the VI person, speak directly to him/her, not through an "interpreter", as if the VI person is not there. Say his/her name, so he/she knows you are talking to him/her. 14. Pure meanness. Placing obstacles in the VI person's path, throwing things at them, rearranging furniture, moving or taking their belongingsc calling them names, taking them to the wrong place and leaving them. Yes, it is mean - and it happens all too often. There will always be Sith among us, but educating ourselves and our children about disabilities may help reduce the bias, discrimination and ignorance. to subscribe, send an email to dthompson5@xxxxxxxxx with a request to subscribe in the subject. "Lord Jesus Christ, you have triumphed over the grave and you have won new life for us. Give me the eyes of faith to see you in your glory. Help me to draw near to you and to grow in the knowledge of your great love and power." Psalm 118:1-2,16-17,22-23 1 O give thanks to the LORD, for he is good; his steadfast love endures for ever! 2 Let Israel say, "His steadfast love endures for ever." 16 the right hand of the LORD is exalted, the right hand of the LORD does valiantly!" 17 I shall not die, but I shall live, and recount the deeds of the LORD. 22 The stone which the builders rejected has become the head of the corner. 23 This is the LORD's doing; it is marvelous in our eyes. This message has been scanned by Microsoft Security Essentials --------------------------------------------------------------------------------