[ SHOWGSD-L ] Re: Unbelievably sad; did I do the right thing?

  • From: PamJB1@xxxxxxx
  • To: showgsd-l@xxxxxxxxxxxxx
  • Date: Fri, 11 Nov 2005 19:56:24 EST

 
I feel sorry for them and agree they shouldn't just be giving them away.  Why 
they are moving to Castle Rock is an unknown issue, but this town now bans  
Pit Bulls and any breed or mix that resembles them. That's the most likely  
reason as to why they can't keep the dogs. Most animal control couldn't tell an 
 
American Bulldog from a Boxer from a Pit Bull, unfortunately. 
Whatever the outcome, I hope it's one that is beneficial for the dogs. 
 
Pam  and the pack.
UKC.,ACHX, UD, UWP, CH, PAM 'Future'  UD,OA, NAJ, OAP, NJP, HT, PT, RE,
CGC, TT, TDI, NAC, HCT, ASCA UD, TC,  DD
UKC CDX 'Forever' CDX, RA, NAP, ASCA CD, CGC, HIC,TC,  TDI

UKC CD AGII 'Terra' CD, HT, NA, NAJ, NJP, RE, HIC,ASCA CD, NAC  
Gone to the Rainbow Bridge.

 
In a message dated 11/11/2005 5:44:35 PM Mountain Standard Time,  
patsgsdpups@xxxxxxxxx writes:

yes you  absolutely, positively did say and do the right thing.My only regret 
is you  didn't include their email address so the entire list could "attack". 
Now that  I think about it, with their kids the age they are-keep the dogs, 
get rid of a  couple of kids.  
Fran Henry <fhenry1@xxxxxxxxxxx> wrote:This  post just appeared on my local 
"freecycle." I just couldn't  help
myself.

> This offer is for two dogs. One, almost 4 years  old, female American 
Bulldog
> (mostly white and beautiful) and a 2 year  old female Boxer.
> 
> This is going to be a long post but a lot  of info to write. My partner is
> heartbroken to have to give up our two  dogs (moving). She is absolutely
> devastated so this will not be easy  and we need to know someone will love 
them
> dearly. We absolutely need  to know these dogs will be loved and cared for.
> She is worried how she  will even sleep at night, not knowing how they are 
so
> this decision  needs to be made carefully. We would ask that anyone who 
takes
> them,  for whatever reason, if it doesn't work to not take them to dumb
>  friends league but to call us and let us figure out a new home. We are
>  moving to Castle Rock and can't have them in the new house.
> 
>  First is Bailey-again, she is just beautiful! She is an American  Bulldog.
> She is so so so sweet. We have a 3 year old, 7 yr old, 12 yr  old and 16 yr
> old and so she has been around kids her entire life. She  is particularly
> attached to our 7 yr old daughter. We have the belief  that a dog is still a
> dog and as gentle as they seem, you always use  common sense. She has never
> snapped or even acted like she would. She  is completely potty trained. She
> is kennel trained. She loves to chew  old plastic water bottles etc and will
> chew up some toys (plastic) if  left alone with them but not often. Her
> downfalls are that she was  raised in the mountains for the first year and
> could run as far and as  wild as she wanted so she will bolt outside if you
> don't warn her  before you open the door to 'stay back'. She can also not
> just go  outside without a leash or she will run. She is also full of energy
>  with some consider a downfall. If someone new comes to the door, she is  
full
> of herself with a 'pet me, oh please pet me attitude'. It only  takes a
> minute to calm down but for that minute, she is full of energy  and
> excitement. She did go through doggy school where she went for a  full month
> (lived on site). She was trained to walk on a leash easily  and not pull etc
> and many other things so we KNOW she can do it, but  with all of our kids, 
we
> weren't able to put in the time to keep her  on such a good schedule but 
with
> some work, you'd have her back to  that in no time. She loves to have a ball
> thrown in the backyard and  to chase it. She absolutely needs a backyard to
> play in. She is,  however, primarily and indoor dog and doesn't really like
> to be  outside a lot. She loves to sleep on a pillow but is kennel trained.
>  
> Brandy is our boxer. We receive compliments on her all the time. She  is all
> excitement and so sweet too. Her excitement though is more that  she will
> just shake and shake and twist and twist. She doesn't run or  go wild. She
> is a lovable dog. She can be timid. She is also kennel  trained. She
> doesn't chew things up and can go outside in your front  yard etc without a
> leash. She is easily walked and she also attended  the doggy school.
Brandy's 
> downfall is that she is not completely  100% housetrained. She sleeps in her
> kennel at night and the first  thing she does is go outside to she hasn't 
had
> to learn 'wake me up to  go potty'. When inside, we just give them ample
> chances outside so we  never 'wait' for her to ask. We don't know if and 
when
> she would go in  the house and can't say for sure that she would if given as
> many  chances outside as we give. She is also NEVER left in the house  
without
> us there (she is put in her kennel) so again, we don't know if  she would 
chew
> toys unattended or not.
> 
> Both of these  girls are so sweet and deserve a great home. Neither of them
> are  registered but they are both purebred. We paid a lot of money for each
>  of them. 
> 
> If you respond, please state why you want them and  how you know they'd fit 
in
> your family. Please, the more you can tell  us about you, the more it will
> ease their moms mind. I can't tell you  how upset she is. She can't write
> this, or have part in it.
>  
> Rosie


I'm really sorry, and I don't mean to add to your  pain, but "moving" is an
unacceptable reason for abandoning your dogs. I've  moved many, many times in
my life, and my dogs [German shepherds] moved  with me. Would you re-home
your children? Surely, renting in a new city is  just as difficult with small
children as it is with dogs.

I applaud  you for your honest evaluation of your dogs, but I would also tell
you that  "free" dogs are often abused. People don't value "free."

Please rethink  your decision. You CAN figure out a way to keep your dogs
with you. They've  given you unconditional love, loyalty, affection -- how
can you reward them  with this? And I promise you, your partner's pain will
NOT go away. She  will always wonder and will always feel guilty.

If I have misunderstood  your situation, then I would urge you to withdraw
your dogs from Freecycle  and find reputable breed rescues for each of your
dogs. Google the breed  plus "rescue" and  "Denver."

Respectfully,

Fran


 
 




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