-----Original Message----- From: Mike Geary <atlas@xxxxxxxxxxxxx> Sent: Oct 11, 2004 6:38 PM To: lit-ideas@xxxxxxxxxxxxx Subject: [lit-ideas] Re: Girlie Writing A.A: > What'd I say? You say someone has girlie writing, I ask what is girlie= =20 > writing, and you get all exercised over it. Geez, babe, get a grip. I don't presume to answer for Erin, Andy, but I suspect she might have=20 gotten a bit pissed at the tenor of your reply which was somewhat=20 confrontational when all this was meant as lighthearted play. I'm answerin= g=20 before she does in hopes of short circuiting her capacity for brutality (cf= .=20 "girlie penmanship"). I hope Erin will not resent my stepping in here, but= =20 I like to think of myself as the resistor between the terminals of a=20 capicitor, slowly draining down the microfarads of charge so that no one=20 gets hurt by the stored voltage. Some might think that's a rather esoteric= =20 metaphor, but I don't care. I am esoteric. And I have girlie penmanship.= =20 So what? I'm esoteric. A.A. Oh, pshaw. I like exercised women anyway. Besides, I was really bro= aching a larger issue. Everybody (okay, "everybody") talks about women bei= ng brainwashed into this and that. My point, brought up the first time in = the post about the Nobel prize winner, is that women can't be brainwashed u= nless men are too. After all these years of women's lib, we are still maki= ng judgments - by 22 year olds no less - even as to male/female handwriting= . What, then, has changed? I believe the statistic is that 1/3 of women e= arn more than men, and women are marrying men for their nurturing skills so= they themselves can pursue careers. Why, then are we still hearing accusa= tions of "girlie men" and remarks about girlie handwriting? Why not just c= lear handwriting, or flourishy, or some other thing? More to the point, wh= y "girlie"? Girlie is pejorative. Why not feminine, which is nice. Every= one (sorry, "everyone") is instructed to get in touch with their "feminine = side". Fair question, yes? Andy Amago Mike Geary Memphis=20 ------------------------------------------------------------------ To change your Lit-Ideas settings (subscribe/unsub, vacation on/off, digest on/off), visit www.andreas.com/faq-lit-ideas.html ------------------------------------------------------------------ To change your Lit-Ideas settings (subscribe/unsub, vacation on/off, digest on/off), visit www.andreas.com/faq-lit-ideas.html