[gameprogrammer] Re: Cultural differences (was date / time issues (was re: Juan Carlos Cazar is out of the office.))

  • From: Bob Pendleton <bob@xxxxxxxxxxxxx>
  • To: gameprogrammer@xxxxxxxxxxxxx
  • Date: Tue, 10 Oct 2006 13:26:58 -0500

On Tue, 2006-10-10 at 10:29 -0700, Alan Wolfe wrote:
> "but they will walk away from the nice guy and go straight for the
> jerk just because the jerk made the first move"
>  
> you wonder if they (women) ever catch onto that fact themselves :P

Yes and no. I believe it follows a normal curve just like most human
attributes. There are a lot of women who like nice guys. They get
married to nice guys and tend to stay married. Then there are women who
chase the "dangerous" guys when they are young. Some out grow it, some
do not. Most *do* figure it out after a divorce or two.

BTW, The same is true of guys.

                Bob Pendleton


> 
>  
> On 10/10/06, David Cornell <kaosboy192000@xxxxxxxxx> wrote: 
>         Women are all different.  It depends on what THEY want and how
>         interested THEY are.  It's all a gamble.  If she smiles and
>         seems to want to be around you, then go ahead and tease her.
>         Aggression may seem wrong, but they will walk away from the
>         nice guy and go straight for the jerk just because the jerk
>         made the first move. 
>         
>         What the H-E-double-hockey-sticks is going on here?  Is this a
>         mailing list for programming help or a dating advice
>         network?  :D
>         
>         Bob Pendleton <bob@xxxxxxxxxxxxx> wrote: 
>                 On Tue, 2006-10-10 at 10:52 +1000, Dave Slutzkin
>                 wrote:
>                 > On Mon, 09 Oct 2006 09:54:28 -0500, "Bob Pendleton" 
>                 > said:
>                 > > On Mon, 2006-10-09 at 10:18 +0100, Chris Schnurr
>                 wrote:
>                 > > > Just as an aside - the amount of effort to get
>                 dateformats in databases
>                 > > > internationali(s/z)ed is terrible!
>                 > > 
>                 > > Yep. What you say is true. Now, think about how
>                 hard it is to come up
>                 > > with culturally compatible art for games? What is
>                 the color for mourning 
>                 > > in your culture? In European based cultures it is
>                 black, in others it is
>                 > > white. What does red mean in your culture, warning
>                 or good luck? Then
>                 > > there are problems with food. Drinking wine is
>                 (pick one): 
>                 > > a) a crime, 
>                 > > b) a sin, 
>                 > > c) a religious sacrament, 
>                 > > d) a good alternative to water, 
>                 > > e) a violation of the 5th precept. 
>                 > > What about dragons? Are they to be killed on sight
>                 or are they revered 
>                 > > for their wisdom? Different cultures see them very
>                 differently.
>                 > 
>                 > I've heard tales of an Eastern European
>                 country/region where nodding and
>                 > shaking of the head are reversed. There's the
>                 primitive cultures where 
>                 > baring the teeth is a sign of aggression. And what
>                 about teasing a girl
>                 > to let her know you like her? Is that universal? ;-)
>                 
>                 Around here (Texas, USA) teasing of anybody for any
>                 reason is becoming
>                 an absolute social no-no. Unasked for touching can get
>                 you in serious
>                 trouble at any age. People tend to reply to that sort
>                 of behavior with
>                 guns and lawyers... The result is a new found respect
>                 for peoples
>                 feelings and bodies. So, what was accepted behavior
>                 when I was a kid is 
>                 now considered to be criminal, or at least near
>                 criminal, behavior. 
>                 
>                 Cultures change, and the changes can happen in an
>                 amazingly short time.
>                 I know young women who can't watch a lot of TV from as
>                 recently as the 
>                 1960s because they gets so angry at the way women are
>                 portrayed. 
>                 
>                 > 
>                 > Dave.
>                 
>                 Bob Pendleton
>                 
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