Nice. <g> ----- Original Message ----- From: Suzanne Wilson To: bookshare-discuss@xxxxxxxxxxxxx Sent: Friday, June 20, 2008 3:23 PM Subject: [bookshare-discuss] Re: ot blindisms et al Hi all, If you don't like very slightly off color language, stop reading right now. The former director of my college's disabled students' office told me this story from her own experience. Someone came up to her in a ladies- room and asked her who helped her get dressed in the morning. Her reply: "The same person who just wiped my ass." Sue ----- Original Message ----- From: Rose Combs To: bookshare-discuss@xxxxxxxxxxxxx Sent: Friday, June 20, 2008 3:07 PM Subject: [bookshare-discuss] Re: ot blindisms et al In 1999 my husband took a job that required him to work graveyards. Shortly after he did so at least three coworkers, medical transcriptionists are generally intelligent, asked me how I was getting dressed and combing my hair so nicely in the morning when I was alone. They seemed to think my husband dressed me, combed my hair and then brought me to work. When I said I'd been performing all my dressing and personal grooming since I was a child and that I could take a cab to work they seemed to think that was amazing. I had worked with a couple of them for more than 20 years and never realized they thought I did nothing but type medical reports. Rose Combs rosecombs@xxxxxxxxx ---------------------------------------------------------------------------- From: Patti Johnson [mailto:pat1206@xxxxxxxxxxxxx] Sent: Monday, June 16, 2008 6:16 AM To: bookshare-discuss@xxxxxxxxxxxxx Subject: [bookshare-discuss] Re: ot blindisms et al Oh goodness, I suppose I could write a book a bout this, the strangeness of the questions and the assumptions. Some one at work asked me who dresses me in the mornings. Oh and of course the real frustrating assumption that you are somebody else. A lady who worked in the same courthouse as I did retired several years before I did. A year after she did I got off the bus one morning and some one came up to me and said, "What are you doing here, I thought you retired." I said back, "I wish." They only see the dog or in our case one time, just the harness when they thought I was her, and our dogs didn't look anything alike and neither did we. Very weird stuff. Patti Throw all your worries on Him, for He cares for you. 1 Peter 5-7, Good News for Modern Man, Today's English Version ----- Original Message ----- From: E. To: bookshare-discuss@xxxxxxxxxxxxx Sent: Monday, June 16, 2008 9:12 AM Subject: [bookshare-discuss] ot blindisms et al I think some people think they can ask questions of a blind person they would not ask of a sighted individual. They say they are just curious. I have people ask me unbelievable personal questions and then get angry i would not talk about whatever or when I said i thought the subject a personal one. Such questions include How much money to you make? Do you have sex often (or with how many or with only blind people or whatever) Why don't you marry a sighted person? Why don't you get married? Why don't you want children? How do you know when you get your period? (asked by a stranger) Elizabeth (E.) To unsubscribe from this list, send a blank Email to bookshare-discuss-request@xxxxxxxxxxxxx Put the word 'unsubscribe' by itself in the Subject line. To get a list of available commands, put the word 'help' by itself in the subject line.