I wouldn’t count on her thinking. But that is a whole different matter. I don’t like going to places where I feel like I am walking on egg shells, but sometimes those things can’t be avoided when dealing with family. But I think you will do okay there, just let them pass the amp to you, don’t give them any. > On Dec 9, 2014, at 2:17 PM, Josh <lawdog911@xxxxxxxxxxx> wrote: > > That is ok because if they were being spiteful then I guess next year she > will think before she sends such a dictating message. I think she wanted it > to be afterwards so that way she could get rid of us sooner, but to be > truthful I am not looking forward to going over there in the first place so > the sooner I can leave the better. However, I plan to make as many comments > that tend to lean towards Iam there for the long haul as I can while I am > there to add to the discomfort *LOL*. In addition to not staying long we have > to get Little Man home in time, early enough, to get in bed before Santa > comes. > > From: audio-pals-bounce@xxxxxxxxxxxxx > <mailto:audio-pals-bounce@xxxxxxxxxxxxx> > [mailto:audio-pals-bounce@xxxxxxxxxxxxx > <mailto:audio-pals-bounce@xxxxxxxxxxxxx>] On Behalf Of Thomas McMahan > Sent: Tuesday, December 9, 2014 11:46 AM > To: audio-pals@xxxxxxxxxxxxx <mailto:audio-pals@xxxxxxxxxxxxx> > Subject: [audio-pals] Re: Ghost Town > > It sounds like it did, and they wanted to try to save the P R part of it at > the last, and well, it just wasn’t bought. > >> On Dec 9, 2014, at 8:51 AM, Josh <lawdog911@xxxxxxxxxxx >> <mailto:lawdog911@xxxxxxxxxxx>> wrote: >> >> Family issues, Amanda’s step-mom at the birthday party made the comment that >> we will have to get together all of us and decide on when to have the >> Christmas at their house. The next thing we hear about it is, Amanda >> received a text telling us that it will be on Christmas Eve at 3:00 and >> asked if we could come. That day I messaged my dad and mom and told them >> when they were planning on doing theirs. My mom asked if they could possibly >> do it at an earlier time in the day, Amanda texted and asked if it could be >> earlier than 3:00. She received the response that they were doing it at 3:00 >> and that my dad and mom could do theirs later in the day. We relayed the >> message and so ours is now at noon over at my dad and mom’s. Amanda relayed >> the message to her step-mom and it is kind of funny their attempt to once >> again control the situation. After Amanda sent the message and let her know >> that the time had been set over at my dad and mom’s and that we would be >> late, her step-mom sent a message and asked how much earlier would we like >> to have it. We, think that 3:00 takes the entire day for the most part. >> However, in order to avoid letting them dictate that we have it after theirs >> we said no, just keep it at 3:00, they have already set theirs to 12 to >> accommodate. I believe it was spiteful what they were doing, but I also >> think that it blew up in their face. >> >> From: audio-pals-bounce@xxxxxxxxxxxxx >> <mailto:audio-pals-bounce@xxxxxxxxxxxxx> >> [mailto:audio-pals-bounce@xxxxxxxxxxxxx >> <mailto:audio-pals-bounce@xxxxxxxxxxxxx>] On Behalf Of Josh >> Sent: Sunday, November 16, 2014 11:20 PM >> To: audio-pals@xxxxxxxxxxxxx <mailto:audio-pals@xxxxxxxxxxxxx> >> Subject: [audio-pals] Ghost Town >> >> Hello, >> How is everyone doing? I have not seen any post from the list in a few >> weeks now. I am wondering if I have not gotten myself booted somehow >> unintentionally. I guess the last I seen any post was Tom and I interacting >> about the family issues. The issues are not a hundred percent, but I do feel >> that since Amanda stood up and stood her ground we have gotten more respect. >> Now, it seems as though we are actualy people and not servants. However, >> that could change at any moment. Well, we have our prequalification letter >> and have found a few houses that we are interested in. We have to call >> tomorrow and get a real estate agent. Getting the prequal was a bit ofa >> hassle though. Today Amanda and I went and bought little man some birthday >> presents and got his location reserved. Sometime this week we have to get >> the invitations filled-out. Amanda and I are in the home stretch of the >> semester and everything seems to be going alright. I am in one class where I >> will not know if I passed or failed until the final grade comes out since >> 50% of the points aren’t going to be figured until the end of the semester. >> Amanda as far as I know is doing fine in her classes, she has some projects >> that she is working on, but I belive they are going fine. So, as always we >> have a ton of things going on, but little time *LOL*. Have a good one and I >> hope to be able to read some list traffic here in a few days. Take care and >> chat later.