In a message dated 12/19/2005 8:53:37 AM Pacific Standard Time, arycrest@xxxxxxxxxxx writes: I don't think too many people are born knowing the proper way to purchase a puppy or handle the grief of losing a beloved pet, I know I wasn't Some common sense on the list???? Grief is a very private thing, and loosing a pet affects people in different ways. My parents bought a German Shepherd from an ad in the newspaper, as I have done in the past. Through the purchase of that dog, we met Erich Renner (sorry if is misspelled this wonderful man's name) and bought two dogs from him. One we gave away because he was rather shy and fell in love with someone working on the house. He was my dog, but I could never get him to go in the car and he simply adored this man. When the contractor asked to have him, this car sick puppy jumped into his car and never looked back. The other had to be put down as he was overly aggressive and attacked my colt. No one can say that Erich was not a reputable breeder. S*** happens. My response to an ad got me a dog from the Newsoms. I loved him to pieces, but he had health issues. The next dog I got from them was my beloved Greta. I lost her at two and still have problems dealing with her loss. Could I have done more to save her? Should I have been more forceful with early testing? Should I have stayed with her at the hospital for the last two weeks of her life? I will never forgive myself for loosing her. My point is, buying (and selling) a puppy is a crapshoot. Folks that sold ME a puppy never had a worry about a puppy I took home with me. lol We ALL try our best to make sure our puppies are healthy. While we breed for the showring, most of our puppies our going to companion homes and health must be a priority, not "showability." IMHO I would be very interested in some sort of a sellers seminar. What to look for, how to screen, different types of questionnaires (if used), home visits? It is all a part of educating ourselves. Colette ============================================================================ POST is Copyrighted 2005. All material remains the property of the original author and of GSD Communication, Inc. NO REPRODUCTIONS or FORWARDS of any kind are permitted without prior permission of the original author AND of the Showgsd-l Management. ALL RIGHTS RESERVED. ALL PERSONS ARE ON NOTICE THAT THE FORWARDING, REPRODUCTION OR USE IN ANY MANNER OF ANY MATERIAL WHICH APPEARS ON SHOWGSD-L WITHOUT THE EXPRESS PERMISSION OF ALL PARTIES TO THE POST AND THE LIST MANAGEMENT IS EXPRESSLY FORBIDDEN, AND IS A VIOLATION OF LAW. VIOLATORS OF THIS PROHIBITION WILL BE PROSECUTED. For assistance, please contact the List Management at admin@xxxxxxxxxxxx VISIT OUR WEBSITE - http://www.showgsd.org ============================================================================