Hi Betty: after reading for a few days about your mishap in the show ring, I felt compelled to write something on your behalf. You received many lovely and compassionate letters from some nice people on this list. So instead of writing you another e-mail, I decided to send you a writing I did a couple of years ago that I sent to this list. It's called "Do it anyway." I hope you enjoy it. Barbara DO IT ANYWAY By Barbara J. Galasso When all those around you say you can’t do this or you can’t do that; do it anyway. When they point and stare and say your dog will not amount to anything in the show ring; show him anyway. When she keeps placing third or fourth in her class but you still like her; keep her and breed her anyway. When you finally have a dog that does win and he’s finished his championship, there will be those who will say he was mediocre at best and the only place he could win would be in an all-breed ring. Pick up your blue ribbons and trophies and smile and say thank you anyway. When you show your champion at the National in the Specials class and he doesn’t win that Select title, know that that is just one judges opinion and bring him back next year and show him again anyway. And if you do show him again the following year and he still doesn’t win, know that that again is just another judge’s opinion. Many a great one was overlooked one year and then the next year too and then the next judge’s opinion can change history. Take him home and love him anyway. When you are disappointed that your dog didn’t make high in trial, keep on practicing. Know that practice makes perfect, but maybe not this time. Keep on practicing anyway. When you want to hold an office or be a board member of your club and you’ve just about volunteered yourself out, and you’re still overlooked; don’t give up, volunteer again. Someone sooner or later will recognize your efforts and will vote for you anyway. If you ever decide you want to become a judge and you meet all the qualifications needed to do so, do it for no other reason than because you love the breed. Don’t do it to please anyone else, or to put up your friends or your bloodlines. Do it because it pleases you and know you won’t always win the popularity vote, but do it anyway. And when you’re tired and weary, beat down and bruised by all the naysayers who wag their tongues relentlessly, don’t you give up. No sir, you pick yourself up and brush yourself off. Get up on your feet, with head held high……..go ahead let a little smile escape from the corners of your mouth if you want……..and then turn and look them straight in the eye and do it anyway! ============================================================================ POST is Copyrighted 2008. All material remains the property of the original author and of GSD Communication, Inc. NO REPRODUCTIONS or FORWARDS of any kind are permitted without prior permission of the original author AND of the Showgsd-l Management. ALL RIGHTS RESERVED. ALL PERSONS ARE ON NOTICE THAT THE FORWARDING, REPRODUCTION OR USE IN ANY MANNER OF ANY MATERIAL WHICH APPEARS ON SHOWGSD-L WITHOUT THE EXPRESS PERMISSION OF ALL PARTIES TO THE POST AND THE LIST MANAGEMENT IS EXPRESSLY FORBIDDEN, AND IS A VIOLATION OF LAW. VIOLATORS OF THIS PROHIBITION WILL BE PROSECUTED. For assistance, please contact the List Management at admin@xxxxxxxxxxxx VISIT OUR WEBSITE - http://showgsd.org NATIONAL BLOG - http://gsdnational.blogspot.com/ ============================================================================