Through no fault of their own, there are people who find Christmas depressing. The pain of losing a loved one over shadows the happiness they should have today. I know of one such person, Cheryl, who I have never personally met. I worked with her daughter, Jessica, who was just 19 years old when she was killed by a drunk driver this past spring. Needless to say, this Christmas is the hardest for the family. I can actually feel Cheryl's pain in her FB posts yesterday and today. I tried my best to cheer her up but she just seemed to be getting worse. Because of her sadness she couldn't see the happiness that Jessica had bought to 5 people this Christmas. Jessica was an organ donor. In her death, she gave 3 people a new organ, and 2 blind people can now see. Cheryl had totally forgotten about the organ donations until I reminded her that Jessica was able to bring a Merry Christmas to 5 complete strangers. And, I am sure these strangers are forever grateful. This seemed to bring some peace to her. So, the next time you feel you didn't get the gift you wanted at Christmas, or that you have to dress nice and go to see relatives you can't stand, think of those who are in so much pain, the holidays are just unbearable. How they would give anything to have one more Christmas with someone they lost. Merry Christmas everyone, and hug the ones you still have with you. And, please do NOT drink and drive! Barb Hively - PA (where every Christmas is a WHITE Christmas) DNA. It's what makes a white, a German Shepherd ============================================================================ POST is Copyrighted 2011. All material remains the property of the original author and of GSD Communication, Inc. NO REPRODUCTIONS or FORWARDS of any kind are permitted without prior permission of the original author AND of the Showgsd-l Management. ALL RIGHTS RESERVED. Each Author is responsible for the content of his/her post. This group and its administrators are not responsible for the comments or opinions expressed in any post. ALL PERSONS ARE ON NOTICE THAT THE FORWARDING, REPRODUCTION OR USE IN ANY MANNER OF ANY MATERIAL WHICH APPEARS ON SHOWGSD-L WITHOUT THE EXPRESS PERMISSION OF ALL PARTIES TO THE POST AND THE LIST MANAGEMENT IS EXPRESSLY FORBIDDEN, AND IS A VIOLATION OF LAW. VIOLATORS OF THIS PROHIBITION WILL BE PROSECUTED. For assistance, please contact the List Management at admin@xxxxxxxxxxx VISIT OUR WEBSITE - http://showgsd.org SUBSCRIPTION:http://showgsd.org/mail.html NATIONAL BLOG - http://gsdnational.blogspot.com/ ============================================================================