WARNING: shrinking violets and chaste maidens should delete this = message immediately! This was posted on the EAC list today and I'm *still* = laughing. =3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D= =3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D=3D I received the following on a writers' list and thought some here might appreciate it. WARNING: some may consider this too...earthy...for their tastes. If lighthearted discussion of functional male anatomy offends = you, pass this one by. But if you've ever edited (or written) a sex scene, = you should like this. Marg > Jim pauses in his latest endeavor and frowns. After > a moment's contemplation, he saves his work and firmly closes his new = > fantasy G4 titanium PowerBook. After a meditative sip of his drink,=20 > he addresses those around him. "There are some literary subjects that = > have become total clich=E9 and attempting to describe an erect penis = is=20 > one.=20 >=20 > "I am writing a sex scene and my hero is now crossing the room while=20 > fully erect. So, basically, his stiff dick is bobbing like a demented = > conductors baton as he crosses the room ... however, one cannot=20 > simply write, 'He crossed the room, his stiff dick bobbing like ...' > and so forth. Well, one could if one was writing that sort of scene=20 > (and one was half plastered), but this one cannot.=20 > "To write anything referring to his 'turgid manhood' is also somewhat = > tacky. Hell, just the term 'manhood' to describe the penis strikes me = > as idiotic. A dick is no more one's 'manhood' than a hymen is one's=20 > 'maidenhood.' > =20 > "'He strutted across the bedroom, his hard manhood pointing the way'=20 > sounds somewhat he owns a badly named seeing-eye dog. 'Sit, Hard=20 > Manhood ... good boy.'=20 > > "Just describing the state of erection is > tough. It is a simple matter of erectile flesh and hydraulics, but=20 > damnably difficult to put into terms romantic. 'His penis, reacting=20 > to his viewing her naked flesh, achieved satisfactory erection,=20 > proving good vascular response and socio/psychological adjustment.'=20 > Oh, yeah ... baby, baby. >=20 > "Terms like 'throbbing,' 'pulsing' and all other variations of this=20 > nature make it sound as if the silly thing had a blood pressure cuff=20 > wrapped around it. 'His fleshy organ quickly surged into full=20 > alertness, throbbing and pulsing and otherwise scaring the **** out=20 > of him.' When I envision something throbbing, I imagine an action=20 > somewhat akin to a bullfrogs throat sack as it croaks. THROB! = Frankly, > with this in mind, if my dick ever took to throbbing, I'd call a=20 > doctor. Matter of fact, I would think that any woman, faced with an=20 > actively throbbing pulsing penis, would be somewhat concerned as=20 > well. (I don't know this for a fact, though ... Dian says that in=20 > certain situations, the sight is somewhat exciting, but the first=20 > time she experienced this situation, she looked for a stick to kill=20 > it with.) >=20 > "And then there is the matter of size, shape, color and texture.=20 > Well, he's the hero ... I suppose it should be heroic, but somewhat > shy of practical joke size. Shape, now, there's another difficulty .. = > as well as color and texture. Hell, let's face it ... a dick is a=20 > fairly funny looking, if not downright ugly, piece of equipment.=20 > Veins, bumps, ridges and all that; a color that never matches the=20 > sheets, much less the surrounding flesh (or any flesh, for that=20 > matter); an overall look of a plum precariously balanced on a > badly whittled rod. Let's not even mention it and simply stick to the = > concept of a literary description of my hero approaching the heroine. = >=20 > "Okay, he's naked and fully aroused ... does he stride? Stalk? Strut? = > Strikes me as a situation that calls for something more than 'walk,'=20 > but something less than 'bound.' I could have the silly sod moonwalk=20 > across the floor, but the resulting mental image ... damn, too late!=20 > Oh, well...another round of therapy. And what does the erect penis=20 > actually do while he crosses the floor? Does it bounce against > his belly, producing it's own applause? Does it wave about in some=20 > sort of vague response to his stride? Would it be feasible if I=20 > simply had him hang a towel from the damn thing and skip the entire=20 > description?=20 >=20 > "And what about the heroine? She is languidly reclining on the=20 > bed...and doing her level best to not bust a gut laughing, I suspect. = > Should she stare? Gasp? Giggle? Ogle? Chant 'boingy, boingy, boingy'=20 > as he approaches or whistle the 'Elephant Walk' in time to the=20 > swaying? This is supposed to be a moment of strong passion and deep > emotions... but a bouncing, throbbing, column of manhood slowly=20 > moonwalking forward...damn, gotta stop that image ... strutting=20 > towards her cannot be what every woman dreams of in her fevered=20 > imagination. I want this scene to be equally stirring to both men and = > women, but fear that this is impossible." >=20 > Sailor Jim stares into the fire for a moment, then opens his=20 > PowerBook once more. "Screw it ... or, rather, let's not. I'll simply = > segue from her starting to slip out of her clothes to the morning=20 > after. Y'know, the standard story cop-out. Thanks for letting me talk = > this one through."=20