And then, talking of fathers failing to be fathers ("lest they give unconditional love everyday," Father Geary predicts), there's this misuse of 'fail': "I failed to notice there was a fly in the soup". ----- Etc. Geary: --- TIPS TO FATHERS (unfailing): ----- Give your unconditional love to your son on Monday. ----- Give your unconditional love to your son on Tuesday. ----- Give your unconditional love to your son on Wednesday. --------- proceed. "Universalise" alla Kant: "Give your son your unconditional love everyday". ------ Speranza In a message dated 10/12/2010 10:11:50 A.M. Eastern Daylight Time, jwager@xxxxxxxxxx writes: One reason fathers may more like "failures" at home than they do at work may have to do with their openness to being taught. I don't like the feeling at work of not knowing what I'm doing; I like to think of myself as "in charge," ------------------------------------------------------------------ To change your Lit-Ideas settings (subscribe/unsub, vacation on/off, digest on/off), visit www.andreas.com/faq-lit-ideas.html