"Giving me my birth information and giving my birth parents my adult name are two totally separate issues that need not be linked in this bill," he said. * While this guy seems slightly neurotic I have to say that I agree with him on this point. There would certainly be reason for an adopted child to want biological information - especially when it comes to biological medical history. In fact, I'd go so far as to say that easier access to biological medical history is the only amendment that adoption legislation requires. This is important information - knowledge of what sorts of medical problems run in one's biological history. The only reason, however, that a biological parent could want information on their adopted child, after all these years, is sheer curiosity. Frankly, to release to that individual such information simply because "they're curious" is a load of crap. Erin TO ------------- http://www.canada.com/national/nationalpost/news/story.html?id=de9954e4-7564-4861-96c3-3cffd8612f98 A proposal to radically revamp adoption laws in Ontario has renewed a passionate debate across the country over what should happen when the right of an adopted child to know where she came from collides with the right to privacy of the birth parents. Today and tomorrow, the National Post examines the state of adoption in Canada, from the battle over access to birth records to the story of one young woman who was asked by friends why she didn't have an abortion instead of giving her baby up for adoption. - - - Denbigh Patton doesn't know what would happen if the woman who gave birth to him found out his name. Adopted as an infant more than 40 years ago, the Toronto resident does not know who she is and, for the time being, does not care to. And, as he and lawyer Clayton Ruby fight to prevent the passage of Ontario's new adoption legislation, which would open records to birth parents and adoptees, he believes his right to privacy trumps the interests of a woman who gave him up when she was just a teenager. "She is unknown to me and at this moment, I don't choose to change that," he said. "And yet the government is determined to release my name to my birth mother when she chooses -- and not when I choose." Under the proposed legislation, the Child and Family Services Act and the Vital Statistics Act would be amended to allow both adoptees and their birth parents to access adoption files containing names, medical records and other personal information. Mr. Patton says the majority of adoptees want this information and all of them deserve to have it, but they should not have to give up their anonymity in exchange. "Giving me my birth information and giving my birth parents my adult name are two totally separate issues that need not be linked in this bill," he said. "They are not linked by principle, they are not linked by logic." Mr. Patton has not sought access to adoption files that hold the particulars of his birth, names of his parents and a medical history that could have an impact on his future. He may request them some day if he decides it's necessary to fill in the blanks, but he says no one else has the right to dictate their release. "It was not my choice to be adopted. I had no say," he said. "But now that I am an adult, there is no excuse for making these decisions on my behalf. The government may not give out my name. Period." He compared the opening of adoption records to the dissemination of an individual's HIV status, health records or sexual orientation. Mr. Patton is willing to have his lawyer defend that argument all the way to the Supreme Court, if necessary. Proponents of the change argue that individual adoptees like Mr. Patton will be protected by a no-contact clause, which would allow him to specify that he does not want his birth mother to contact him, and slap her with a $50,000 fine if she does. It is an argument that provides him no comfort. "The disclosure is the harm," he says. "I cannot stop her from talking about me to you. I cannot stop her from Googling me," he said. "I cannot stop her from driving past my house or photographing my children on the playground." He has not ruled out making contact with his birth mother, although he does not believe he will. And he does not know what would happen if she decided to make contact with him. "The most honest answer to the question of how will it affect me," he said, "is that I have no idea." ------------------------------------------------------------------ To change your Lit-Ideas settings (subscribe/unsub, vacation on/off, digest on/off), visit www.andreas.com/faq-lit-ideas.html