"The dress of a woman of Lhasa, In its place, Is an invisible element of that place Made visible." quotes Geary from W. Stevens. This reminds me of the erotics of dressing. While I agree that dressing and undressing inhabitants of Lhasa can be _very_ erotic, I am also *reminded* of Sir Noel Coward's adage: "Better with your socks off" (from his song "Time and again" -- The lyrics to this wonderful song don't seem to be online, and I should quote them some other time). I submit that _dressing_, in the sexual sense of the word (cf. 'undressing') has all to do with eroticism and sex, but hardly with _love_ which cannot be _made_ with your socks on. Cheers, JL ************************************** See what's new at http://www.aol.com