Hi Malcolm people who have never lived with a foster family would not know what happens, some foster families are not as strict as mine we had a very Victorian upbringing but I think it made a better person of me when I see how the children are brought up today,mind you if how I was brought up was today my parents would have been in hot water for some of the things they did,I don't know if that today's methods are good or bad but there was not so much crime in my younger days as there is today, love from Jenny M