Hi Malcolm children can be very cruel when they have a mind to,one day my sister was playing with one of her friends and I was there also, she had some clay and was pretending it was chocolate,she said to me close your eyes and open your mouth as I was afraid to do otherwise I complied and she stuffed the clay into my mouth,as children we had to sit in a long tin bath together when it was bath time,when we had finished we had to carry the bath outside and empty it into the ditch which ran along the garden,I had to walk backwards and I kept looking behind me but my sister said she would tell me where I was going and told me to keep walking,all of a sudden I fell into the ditch backwards and it was all slimy my foster mother came out and gave me a clout and I had to get back into the bath to wash it all off and all she could say to me was watch where you are going my sister did not tell her it was her fault that she would not let me look behind me as I was walking, love from Jenny M