hi all I am sorry I did not get what part of Essex you are from.I was born in Avley then my mum and dad moved to Ilford they split up in 1973.I lost my dad in 1977.I lost a brother in 1988.I was marid in 1990.I left her in 2005.I moved up here at the end of 2008.all for now love Tony. xxxx my skype name is antonybutler1958