Sure hope it all works out in your favor.. ~~~~++++++ to you From: elky-bounce@xxxxxxxxxxxxx [mailto:elky-bounce@xxxxxxxxxxxxx] On Behalf Of Ray Buck Sent: Wednesday, October 31, 2012 2:19 AM To: elky@xxxxxxxxxxxxx Subject: [elky] Re: Divorce and Contempt Action This is an email that my lawyer sent to my soon-to-be ex. That little "encouragement" of 30 daze in the slammer might encourage anyone to do what the findings of law state in the decree of Separate Maintenance: On 10/30/2012 4:47 PM, Mary Brown wrote: Dear Gayle: I know that this causes you distress. Can't we just get this over with? The contempt action is scheduled for November 14, 2012 @ 9am before Commissioner Casey. You should be aware that, if you will not sign the papers, we will ask the court to hold you in contempt and ask the Court to sentence you to jail for 30 days or until you are willing to sign Ray's retirement documents as you agreed to in the Separate Maintenance action. We have also filed for divorce. If you would sign an acceptance of service and waiver for the divorce, we might not need your signature on the IHC documents and could cancel the contempt action. I know that Ray would still be willing to give you $500 if you will just go ahead and sign the spousal waiver. Please let me know your thoughts. I am reluctant to take these actions because I know that your circumstances are difficult. However, Ray is in serious financial distress and there is no reason for you to delay this any further. Best regards, Mary I sure hope this does the trick. If it does, it could be the ticket to a nice Christmas for a lotta people...even if I have to provide some "encouragement" cash up front. There might be a light at the end of the tunnel....and not a freight train. Any crossed fingers, toes. +++++~~~~~ and/or prayers would be appreciated. r (Saddened that it comes to paying baksheesh to my ex to get her to do what the courts already told her she was gonna have to do. At least I can hope that the letter of the law will be sufficient to persuade her to do the "next right thing, but at the same time encouraged that progress is being made.)